Well we (Pakistanis that is) are raciest to quite an extent. We call African Americans "Kaley", we call Caucasians "Gorey". I still remember we used to make fun of West Indian cricket team by calling them "Kalooo Dewaney". When our mom's go out to look for BAHOO, they look for "goree chitee" bahoo, when moms go out to look for DAMAD, they look for "same bradary damad" (in many cases) and so on ...... One way or another, these are all different forms of racism
Its pity that we point fingers to other people when we are discriminated but we do it every day without even noticing it.
I actually don't do that. First of all if i was looking for a bahu the last thing i would be concerned about would be if she was 'kaali' or 'gori'
I also take care in how I speak about other races. If we ourselves don't change and carry on with this offensive, kaala or gora thing then our kids will follow us. I would never ever want to hear these things from my children.