Rasmalaii:
ohh you know if someone is memon, and amongst memons there are soooo many different types, theirs bantva (batawala) memons, jethpur memons, and so many more. They all speak different dialects and bantva girls don’t marry other guys besides bantva, but bantva guys can marry other memon types of girls because the kids will become bantva and take after their dad lollll OMG when I hear memons tell me this stuff, I’m like whyyy what is wrong with you guys. They act all religious and then they segregate amongst their own selves. Most memons are rich, and sadly the ones here are pretty snobbish about it. I went once to a memon dawat, and all the girls were sitting at the table talking about brand named stuff they bought, and I felt so out of place because I could careless about brand name purses, shoes, etc. The whole night they discussed money and how they spent it, and gossiped about other memon girls who didn’t show up at the party. Not all are stingy lol However the few memons I know, they actually are :-/
I am half memon:chai:
I did get some memon traits, the ones you described. I guess you have to because to fit in with your family members and other memon community. I do detest it and detest what I have become because of adopting bad habits from them.