salaam dosto
ummeed hai k mizaaj-e-giraamii ba_Khair hoNge.
bahot ziyaada door kii baat nahiiN, abhii koii 10 saal pahle tak mere ghar ke saare afraad ek saath baiTh kar kam az kam raat kaa khaanaa aur Khaatim-ul_hafta / hafta-band [weekends] par ek saath mez par baiTh kar khaayaa karte the magar juN juN Bhaai aur Bhaabhii ke bachche baRe hote gaye aur unhoN ne ek ek kar ke apnii safar_haa-e-zindagaaniii kii taraf baRhne kii Gharaz se universities kaa ruKh kiyaa, yeh silsila munqat’a hotaa gayaa aur ab yeh 'aalam hai k ab ham teenoN akele rah gaye…Bhaaii aksar university meN der tak ruk jaate haiN aur maiN bhii aksar kaam se der se aataa, is liye aksar o beshtar ham tanhaa hii khaanaa khaate haiN…bahot 'ajeeb aur buraa lagtaa hai!
kam o besh yehii kahanaii har har mo’aashare aur har ghar kii hai…zindagii kii is dauR meN ham aage to nikal gaye magar apnii ghareloo zindaiyaaN bahot peechhe chhoR gaye. yeh maqaam-e-fikr hai k ham is bheR chaal ko kaise rokeN aur kaise apne gharoN meN ham vohii puraane andaaz e zindagii vaapis laayeN?
kisii ke poochhne par k puraanii aur naii tahzeeb meN kia farq hai to mere majhle Bhaaii ne ek baar kia Khoob kahaa thaa k:
“bas itnaa hii farq hai k puraane waqtoN meN rishtedaar qareeb huaa karte the aur toilet/bathroom door huaa karte the aur ab is jadeed daur meN toilet / bathroom [attached] qareeb tareen aa gayaa hai magar rishtedaar door chale gaye”
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aap bhii apne ta’assuraat ham se share kareNge to is fikr ko aage baRhaane meN madadgaar saabit hoNge.**
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
Its because 'taraqi' defeated 'falah'... priorities changed
true but we must give time to family...even politicians use this excuse when they are squeezed from their positions...is meN kuchh to Khair hogii tabhii to bahaane taraashne ke liye yeh bahaana nihaayat hii mauzooN hai. hai na?
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
true but we must give time to family...even politicians use this excuse when they are squeezed from their positions...is meN kuchh to Khair hogii tabhii to bahaane taraashne ke liye yeh bahaana nihaayat hii mauzooN hai. hai na?
khair to hai but now routine got changed.... Even when some people get time, they goes out with friends
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
khair to hai but now routine got changed.... Even when some people get time, they goes out with friends
nuclear families kaa anjaam jauharii dhamaaka hii hai...dekhiye kab, kahaN aur kaise phaTtaa hai yeh! :(
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
kkf urdu mai summarize kr ke likha karain.
Kuch saal pehle tuk hum bhi lunch aur dinner sath krte thay. But things changed. We have dinners together occasionally now(2-3 times a week) amd lunch together on fridays and saturdays.
Ab to dinning table py bethny ka saleeka bhe nahi raha.
Apart from family gatherings we hardly sit together for a meal because everyone has their own eating timings.Gone are the days when people were simple,loving,caring and had time for each other ,no matter whatever you do you can't bring back those days.Accept it and you will find it easy to digest your food alone :p
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
In our childhood, we never had lunch/ dinner with abba due to his timings. He normally had his lunch on shop and at night he used to come very late, when we were in bed.. Then I left home for studies and job. still whenever I go home, we have separate timings. Only when he comes to Karachi, we all have dinner together.
My sisters give me company at dinner now, but for a week or so they have started dieting in night so I’m going to have dinner alone.. but they sit besides me and we share our routines at that time.
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
Not having dinner together started 'cuz of dieting at my house too. Sis was on dieting for a long time…kabhi kabhi mum was on dieting too…after that bro started going out with friends…that was how it started :hinna:
Our reasom was studies when i was in school one of my sister was in college and the eldest was in university so each of us was coming home at a different time.we have our tea together though!
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
Our reasom was studies when i was in school one of my sister was in college and the eldest was in university so each of us was coming home at a different time.we have our tea together though!
Studies /job k wajah se lunchtime together was disrupted
Re: raat kaa khaanaa/weekend ka lunch family ke saath na khaanaa
bahot pate kii baat kahii aapne…ab to saleeqa bhii nahiiN rahaa khaane kii mez par baiThne kaa. ad… kia kareN aadateN chhoRnaa bhii to koii aasaan kaam nahiiN…joo e sheer laane ke mutaraadif hai!
aaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwww…dieting ne gharoN meN mushkilaat paidaa karnii shur’u kar dii haiN…ab yehii soorat e Haal paidaa ho rahii hai k ghar kaa koii na koii fard dieting par hotaa hai aur is taraH ham saath mil baiTh ke sunehre mavaaq’e kho baiThte haiN.
same jawaab as above. it’s sad but necessary for some though.
kkf urdu mai summarize kr ke likha karain.