Quickest Shaadi to Talaq you have seen?

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A little of both…they were introduced by mutual family friends, and talked, met, “dated” for a few months before the baat pakki…and then had a two year engagement. The groom was a good friend of my husband, and though I didn’t know the bride very well, my best friend’s sister was friends with her sister, so I was both sides of the story. I remember my husband and I were leaving for Pakistan the next day after the wedding…we kept saying how something wasn’t right, the groom looks upset…so my hubby said “I’ll talk to him when we get back, he should be fine…” Ha! By the time we got back from our trip, the dude was already divorcing! The whole situation was quite ridiculous! And you know how the saying goes "there’s your version, my version and the TRUTH! Lol!

@khattichic

Why do people get themselves into these situations? Whatever happened to honesty & integrity?? The biggest curse on our desi mentality is “log kya bolayngay?” Array, logon kya karna hai? Who the hell cares…feelings will get hurt, but they will get over it…My husband and I have a friend who was in a 2 year long engagement, and every minute of those 2 years was miserable. All we heard was complaints and jhagray…but the fools kept planning the wedding.
Aik doosray ko zaleel kartay rahay, laikin rishta nahin tora..kyoon? Isliyay ke community may badnami hoti. . Mehndi walay din larki ki abu nai larkay ko gaaliyan dehke ghar se bahaar nikaldiya. Nikkah waale din, papers sign hogay, dua parliya, laikin bride & groom ke parents aik doosray ko mubarak baat tak nahin di…galaay tak nahin milay! Laikin kya zabardast reception tha! (sarcasm)

End result…they left for a 10 day honeymoon in Hawaii..made a pitstop in larki’s home city, than came back to larka’s state to start their “lives”…7 days later larki was back at her parents filing for a divorce. 2 yr engagement, 18 day marriage and $175,000 spent on a wedding…

Laanat ho aisay logon pay…(cousin Sara included)

KC: isnt $175K huge amount of money?

Ridiculously huge. It was a VERY extravagant wedding. There were about 800+ people at the reception (nikkah was earlier in the day and mire intimate with just family and close friends), and it was at one of the poshest hotels in our city. Everything was as top class as possible. Both bride and groom sides were extremely showy people and were not lacking financially. Maybe this was Allah’s way of showing them their real aukat. Khair, the guy is now remarried (to a cousin!), as far as I know, girl is still single…