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what u think which is big loss for married couple who hav kids too

1> husband’s 2nd marriage …( but husband is still fair in his faraaiz(duties) wih both wives and kids)

2> divorce / khulla (sepration)

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Number 2 is a bigger loss, but number 1 is also not a desirable situation

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2

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if i were a woman, i would KILL both and take kids with me to a far away land! :)

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Divorce is a bigger loss but it depends on the person too.

If he is trying to be fair.........then maybe it can be worked out.

If not..........then not.

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man is that a pic of a couple making out in your profile pic, KKF? :eek:

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and there is an “L” word too :eek: :eek:

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odd way of making out as they are swinging from side to side. I dont see much benefit in that kind of motion.

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kis k ley desirable nahi hai ? husband ? 1st wife ? kids? or 2nd wife ?

y kill ? talaq ,khulla ,2nd marriage in sub ka haq shariat nay diya hay ..app apnay ley ik choose ker lain ..

isee condition per sawal hay …husband ki 2nd marriage per talaq dayna ya wife ka khulla layna behter hay ya adjust kerna jub k app kay husband fair rahay ..or bachoon k ley ik mukmal gher bhi rahay

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desirable for healthy marriage (first marriage).

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maybe they are swingers :eek:

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swinging is better than sliding, but see-saw is the best. Kabhi oopar, kabhi neeche

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an any condition ? yaane yeh hatme bat hay ?

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aaj kal zamanay main to hatmi baat hee hai. AAj kal, its diffcult to support even one family - both financially and emotionally. Its unfair if the guy decided to start another family (2nd marriage). Its unfiar for everyone, except for the guy maybe.

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islaam main koi hukam aisa ho sakta hay jis ko UNFAir kaha jayee

unfair kia hay ? 2marriage ya haq talfee ?

thore wazahat kerain

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Unho ne aaj kal ka zamana keh kar wazahat kar di hai.

Han Islam Mai aesa koi hukum nahi ho unfair ho per let me
Give u an example..

Kisi country Mai roza 9 hrs ka tha is bar n Kisi Mai 19..to Kia 19 hrs walo ke sath unfair tha?
Hum Islam ko puri tarah samjhe nahi sirf apni sahoolat dekhte hain.

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Dekhain jee, Ijazat aur Hukm main bohut farq hai. Islam main dosree shadi kee ijazat hai, hukm nahi.

Eik se zyada shadi mard ke liye sunnat hai, farz nahi.
Biwi bachchon ke dekh bhaal, achchi tarbeeyat farz hai.

Farz nibhaanay ke liye sunnat tark kerne kee ijazaat tou yaqeenan ho gee.

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kkf :eek:

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P_G: to phir mulki qanoon dosri shadi ki ejazat deta hai ya nahi?

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kinzz> islam to qyamat tak k ley aya hay ..or her zamana har mulk her shehar tmam muslmano k ley aya hay

app ki wazhat ki misaal mujhay samjh nahi ayee ..hum per roza rakhna farz hay ..hum to i sko obey kertay hain ..9 ya 12 ghantoon ka is main kia ammal dakhal ?

apne sahollat agar islam khud day raha hay to kion nahi lain ? just asking

mera yahan hukam say murad islaam k ahkaamat say hai …

baqee mera topic main yeh shart to mainy khud likhe hay husband apnay faraiz nibhaa raha hay ..is soorat main kia hay ?

app is condition k sath raaye dain