What is worse (better)?
case 1 - ‘ticking the boxes’ and discussing views and compatibility - then sharing pictures - and then get rejected
case 2 - sharing pictures first hand - getting rejected outright before delving into detailed discussion.
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1 because I/her would have just wsated their time and effort
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Sharing pictues.. What kinda pictures? 
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1 is worse. But isnt the norm to exchange pics first?
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not those body parts. I am talking about Face.
Well, some people (read girls side) do nakhray shakray about showing pictures. They want to talk first.
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Rather use that time that has been wasted into something more productive… maybe googling best angles and lighting to take a good picture with 100% results of not getting rejected.
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I would say second is worse because you didn’t even get to know the girl, just saw her pictures & rejected her straight. I am not saying physical appearance is not important but deciding solely on pics & then continuing with rishta is somewhat lame to me.
First is better as you talked & got an idea how that person is like, how is he/she to talk to before jumping into pics.
And people you will have to invest your time, effort & energy when you are taking such an important decision of your life & choosing your spouse.
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in order words would you rather get rejected for your personality/how good you look on paper or your face?
I would rather get rejected for my face.
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Look Gupshupper, looks are important. the only thing that is “as is”. rest is unknown about the person anyways. Getting rejected for looks kinda sux. getting rejected kinda sux if it happens too many times in a row anyways for whatever reason.
but if it makes you feel better: there is always a beast that will make you look like a beauty. Be patient.
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Yes 1 is far worse. Waste of time and effort plus shows just how shallow some people are
and that is usually how many rejections happen, shallow superficial types (mainly men, lets be honest here) can’t even make it past the first round. sees pic, thinks ‘aww man she looks nothing like Katrina Kaif, I deserve the most stunning woman only… even though I am nothing special myself so reject, reject, reject’ and viola, 20 years later he is still single and thinking to himself ‘damn, should not have been so fussy, some of them girls were pretty decent looking’
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You saying people should just marry without physical attraction? Which later leads to dissatisfaction stupid behaviour? How is that any better?
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i think its better to see each other before anything
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Does Katrina Kaif even look like herself though. Pretty sure she’s had plastic surgery/enhancements here and there (lips) and Photoshop for her pics.
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No thats clearly not what I am saying. SOME attraction is important but some people take it too far. theres the types who think ‘yeah shes pretty enough for me’ and then theres the type who think ‘yeah shes pretty… shes about a 6 or a 7 but of course i think i deserve a 10 therefore i’m just going to keep rejecting them until i get myself a 10’ - in other words, people who have no depth to them and very highly scrutinize over looks. the sad thing is half of them are rarely anything special to look at themselves yet still think they are something special and think they DESERVE only the best.
dissatisfaction can come from having an incredibly beautiful wife, she could think she is too good for you and leaves you chasing after her like a good little lapdog whilst she is off having affairs with better looking men. tell me how that is better? and before you say it - yes i do know a few women like that. if shes a 10 and hes a 5 she’ll have him well trained
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which is exactly the problem, too brainwashed by fake beauty that they don’t even realise that most women will only resemble her if they have tons of surgery. let them dream though.
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Pictures should be exchanged first to avoid heartbreak
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A good friend of mine said something to me recently - once their undressed, its pretty much all the same downstairs, everything else is just fluff! Quite poetic I thought.
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Your friend is an idiot.
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hahah
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No he’s not, he’s a kool Nigerian fellow.