Now if you come across an other perfectly fine rishta prospect, who says he will stay with parents and you will have to stay with in-laws forever.
would you go ahead with this?
YES
or
NO
??
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No. Never.
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When in-laws give you two enough privacy and don't nag you and are understanding then why not? I live with my in-laws and it's perfectly fine. They do their thing and me and my husband make our own decisions.
I feel it's unfair that the girls have to leave their parents and the guys don't but if the guy decides to live with his parents then he should let the girl see her parents whenever she wants as far as their personal life isn't affected much. But it's always better to meet the family and get to know them as well before you make any decision.
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Yes. I have no issues living in a joint family.
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yes becoz we cant seprarte from their parents as far for girls its different that girl has to leave their house and all ...respect them and treat them as you treat your parents by this your husbnd loves you more .. i think these small things create issues which is not good becoz i belve life is short so live happily :)
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If it's a huge family and they have a huge house then yes.
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Yeah, why not.
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It depends...
If the inlaws aint involvin in ur n ur hubbies business....
If the nand aint actin like queen of the house...
If the mil respects ur decissions...and u can respect hers
If the inlaws respecr ur parents
If the house has enough space
Than yes...
But if the nand s a bossy type and wants ur hubby to act like her puppet... Or the mil wants her son to stay her baby boy...than sorry not happenin
(i life alone with my hubby...5 mins away from inlaws...and 5 mins away from my parents so hmdl no such issues :) )
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Yes,
Because if I WANTED him nothing would matter.
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wow u girls are so nice 
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I think its weird that anyone would put that as a condition before marriage. You can't blame the girl for being a bit taken aback by such decided statements. Reason being, after you sign the dotted line its all about compromise - for both parties and not just one.
You're better off getting to know her, letting her get to know your parents, talking to her about it and allowing things to progress naturally.
If someone were to call my mom and tell her about a prospective rishta whose condition is that the girl has to live with his parents - I'd not bother talking to him. Why? Because it shows inflexibility right from the start and also paints a negative picture of his parents. It also shows that the family has emotional baggage in the form of past bad experiences and I'd rather not get involved.
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No.
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if a guy saying this to me I will say No...not because I dont want to live with in-laws (cuz according to my my mom u r better off living with inlaws) but because how stupid and naive he is that even in-laws not gonna stay in this world forever.
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that really depends on a lot of things
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Sorry about the de-rail,
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Nope.
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And then we have threads like “Not Enough Men” 
. Of course there aren’t, because they have responsibilities you don’t want them to fulfill.
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Everyone has responsibilities. Men and women. Those responsibilities do not just disappear - they are part of your life as long as you are alive and breathing. You're responsible for your bills, kids, spouse, parents, etc. This isn't new.
If you're mature enough for marriage, you are also mature enough to balance your wife and your parents. Otherwise, don't do it. When you get married, its not supposed to be a death sentence for the wife. She's supposed to have a life with her husband. You don't have to be unjust with one to be just with the other. Its not necessary.
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Everyone has responsibilities. Men and women. Those responsibilities do not just disappear - they are part of your life as long as you are alive and breathing. You're responsible for your bills, kids, spouse, parents, etc. This isn't new.
If you're mature enough for marriage, you are also mature enough to balance your wife and your parents. Otherwise, don't do it. When you get married, its not supposed to be a death sentence for the wife. She's supposed to have a life with her husband. You don't have to be unjust with one to be just with the other. Its not necessary.
Well said reha!