Specially when you are an early bird yourself? Like I normally wake up b/w 6-7 even on weekends and then just wander around doing nothing or prepare breakfast for the family or put my laundry etc. In summer though, I have sport activity on Sunday morning so at least that takes the boredom out of one weekend morning.
Many times I have decided that I am going to wake her up liken afreen hai begum per itni masoom shakal bana ker sotee hai k wake up kerney jaoo tu rehem aa jata hai and I let her sleep. Even though she is a house wife but she has pretty hectic schedule so I let her catch onto her sleep on sat/sunday.
yes my huby never makes me up , he n baby both make up at 9, he prepares breakfast for the baby feed her, change her, n spend time wth her, waits for me to get up, i get up by 11 or 12, our weekend is friday, so he has to leave for prayer at 12:30 if i m not up by 12:30 lolz only then he makes me up bc of baby
wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting
I am not sure where are you coming from but waking her up does not automatically mean that there is a laundry list waiting for her. Waking her up might be for a morning walk together, or spending some time together while kids are sleeping or anything else.
and sorry to burst your bubble but "he/she can do whatever he/she wants to" looks really good on paper but this is not how the dynamics of family work. When you have a family, you HAVE to do somethings that you might not do if you are single. You have rights and responsibilities both.
Some 8-10 years ago when my wife did not drive, she used to wake me up sometimes to get milk for our little one. Did that make me driver? NO
wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting
And this is how people make a mountain out of a molehill and create anth when there is nothing wrong.
You know the scenarios such as:
Woman1: I sleep till 12 weekends.
Woman2: My husband lets me sleep till 11.30 too.
W1: What?? Your husband 'lets' you sleep?! Wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting.
W2 thinking: Omg. She is right. My husband treats me like some kind of a doormat. Who is he to let me sleep till 12.30. I can decide for myself if I wanto sleep till then or not.
She was alway awake before I, especially when we were newly married … always amazes me that she can manage to sleep with my snoring or nightmares.
If I woke one morning to find she was not awake I would not mind, I did once try and sneak out the house after breakfast but she called after me to say she had left some packed luch for me.
I really missed her loads while away, but I am happy to see her and the kids are all well. If she did not wake before 10 I would not mind on a few occasions but if it became frequent I would start to get very worried and proabably try and see what was wrong.
During weekdays or weekends I wake up around 4 am to go to work. Her schedule is mostly with kids since they are out of school at this time which is around 1-2 pm.
And this is how people make a mountain out of a molehill and create anth when there is nothing wrong.
You know the scenarios such as:
Woman1: I sleep till 12 weekends.
Woman2: My husband lets me sleep till 11.30 too.
W1: What?? Your husband 'lets' you sleep?! Wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting.
W2 thinking: Omg. She is right. My husband treats me like some kind of a doormat. Who is he to let me sleep till 12.30. I can decide for myself if I wanto sleep till then or not.
W1: What?? Your husband 'lets' you sleep?! Wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting.
If I start playing my duff early in the morning that won't let my wife sleep ... It's not that I have forbidden her to sleep late ... It will just annoy her and she won't be able to sleep ... I think D6C meant it in that respect ...
jab merii aayegii to maiN uske bed ke neeche time bomb rakh diyaa karuuNgaa…time set at 5:59 am…6 baje tak bed se na uThii to dunyaa se uTh jaayegii!!!
Am I the only one that thinks forcing someone to wake up unless there's some emergency is kinda zulm? I don't force my husband to wake up and there's never a question of "letting" someone sleep til whenever. Weird.
, he n baby both make up at 9, he prepares breakfast for the baby feed her, change her, n spend time wth her, waits for me to get up, i get up by 11 or 12, our weekend is friday, so he has to leave for prayer at 12:30 if i m not up by 12:30 lolz only then he makes me up bc of baby 
