Specially when you are an early bird yourself? Like I normally wake up b/w 6-7 even on weekends and then just wander around doing nothing or prepare breakfast for the family or put my laundry etc. In summer though, I have sport activity on Sunday morning so at least that takes the boredom out of one weekend morning.
Many times I have decided that I am going to wake her up liken afreen hai begum per itni masoom shakal bana ker sotee hai k wake up kerney jaoo tu rehem aa jata hai and I let her sleep. Even though she is a house wife but she has pretty hectic schedule so I let her catch onto her sleep on sat/sunday.
yes my huby never makes me up , he n baby both make up at 9, he prepares breakfast for the baby feed her, change her, n spend time wth her, waits for me to get up, i get up by 11 or 12, our weekend is friday, so he has to leave for prayer at 12:30 if i m not up by 12:30 lolz only then he makes me up bc of baby
I am not sure where are you coming from but waking her up does not automatically mean that there is a laundry list waiting for her. Waking her up might be for a morning walk together, or spending some time together while kids are sleeping or anything else.
and sorry to burst your bubble but “he/she can do whatever he/she wants to” looks really good on paper but this is not how the dynamics of family work. When you have a family, you HAVE to do somethings that you might not do if you are single. You have rights and responsibilities both.
Some 8-10 years ago when my wife did not drive, she used to wake me up sometimes to get milk for our little one. Did that make me driver? NO
And this is how people make a mountain out of a molehill and create anth when there is nothing wrong.
You know the scenarios such as:
Woman1: I sleep till 12 weekends.
Woman2: My husband lets me sleep till 11.30 too.
W1: What?? Your husband ‘lets’ you sleep?! Wife is a wife, no nokarani, she can do whatever she wants, no question of letting or not letting.
W2 thinking: Omg. She is right. My husband treats me like some kind of a doormat. Who is he to let me sleep till 12.30. I can decide for myself if I wanto sleep till then or not.
She was alway awake before I, especially when we were newly married … always amazes me that she can manage to sleep with my snoring or nightmares.
If I woke one morning to find she was not awake I would not mind, I did once try and sneak out the house after breakfast but she called after me to say she had left some packed luch for me.
I really missed her loads while away, but I am happy to see her and the kids are all well. If she did not wake before 10 I would not mind on a few occasions but if it became frequent I would start to get very worried and proabably try and see what was wrong.
During weekdays or weekends I wake up around 4 am to go to work. Her schedule is mostly with kids since they are out of school at this time which is around 1-2 pm.
If I start playing my duff early in the morning that won’t let my wife sleep … It’s not that I have forbidden her to sleep late … It will just annoy her and she won’t be able to sleep … I think D6C meant it in that respect …
jab merii aayegii to maiN uske bed ke neeche time bomb rakh diyaa karuuNgaa…time set at 5:59 am…6 baje tak bed se na uThii to dunyaa se uTh jaayegii!!!
Am I the only one that thinks forcing someone to wake up unless there’s some emergency is kinda zulm? I don’t force my husband to wake up and there’s never a question of “letting” someone sleep til whenever. Weird.
, he n baby both make up at 9, he prepares breakfast for the baby feed her, change her, n spend time wth her, waits for me to get up, i get up by 11 or 12, our weekend is friday, so he has to leave for prayer at 12:30 if i m not up by 12:30 lolz only then he makes me up bc of baby 
