Re: Question for the men here…
Girls are more emotional and take dating as something serious. They get emotionally attached and involved soon. Since guys know their parents well, they should tell the girl what kind of resistance they should expect. Sometimes, there is no resistance so girls think since the guy is proceeding with them, he is confident of his parents which is not always the case. Girls want to be sincere since the begining. Thats why they think that if they are to be involved with a guy, they WILL BE marrying him. Its the guy’s duty to keep them informed about their parents and possible resistance they will be facing. Some guys plan to convince their parents while some plan to just agree on leaving their girl for their parents’ choice. They should inform the girl in clear words of their level of involvement with the girl in the beginning.
Yes, because girls’ character is more important in our elders’ eyes and guys are allowed to do anything and everything. The guys’ parents don’t seem to acknowledge that in any love relationship, the guy is also to be ‘blamed’ equally as the girl. Its not always like Larki ne hi larkay ko phansaya hai. Guys are not babies who just blindly fell in love with a girl. Guys parents think that their bahu should be of good character since she will be the mother of their grand children. So they can’t see a girl as their bahu who has ‘trapped’ their son.