KayZ
June 12, 2011, 5:49pm
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Re: Question for the men here…
Guys know their parents well and their likes and dislikes in choosing bahus. The guys should know that the parents won’t approve of a particular caste or they won’t approve of their sons’ choice. Sometimes parents don’t approve of a girl without any apparent reason. Its because they think that such a girl might not have a good character because she is with their son.
Guys should make the girls clear in the beginning that the dating part is just a trial period and nothing should be considered final . Girls are emotional and they do tend to think that if a guy is dating them, he will necessarily be marrying them which may not be the case because of parents approval. On the other hand, guys should immediately talk to their parents once they decide on a particular girl rather than prolonging the dating period so that they can start their mission to convince their parents or to stop wasting their time with that girl and start looking for a new girl.
i could be totally wrong but i think that dating stage is always a trial period and nothing should be considered final. Higher the expectations, bigger the disappointment.