so i read here a lot womenz like their husbands to be able to take responsiblity of the wife financially…and also don’t like men who get financial support from their parents…
would u marry man who took money from parents?
what would u do if your husband were to take money from his parents? would you try to stop him/discourage him?
is that something which is a significant turn-off or its like…''his problem…why should i care" sorta thing??/
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Take money from parents like to get financial support or get money from parents as asking for his share of inheritance?
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husband should be giving the money to parents not taking from them...it's a no no.
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If he is working with his dad then sure why not. If he is just sitting on his ass all day and getting money from his dad and think he can make it work like that then no way! :nono:
Bekar insaan are such a turn-off.
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in my opinion, it is ok to ask money from parent in crisis. but making it habit is not good idea.
I am agree with hareem.
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If my husband is taking money from his parents to fulfill his daily needs then I'd be a bit worried. You'd think that when one marries, he should be able to support himself, his new family, and if needed, his parents. However, if he wants his share of inheritance, that's a separate thing.
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not inheritance........... and i am not talking extremes like...sitting on his ass all day...... i am talking about financial support..as in generally........
and what would u do if he were to do that??? will it be a source of major phadda shadda?? or a meh issue?
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So if we were going through financial hardship and asked his parents for some help, I'd be OK. I would, however, encourage him to keep track and pay back when he is able to. Now this is considering that I am unable to work and fill in for our needs.
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If my own son is going through financial instability, I would be there for him to help him out. Just because he is married now does not mean that he is no longer my son. If he doing it out of laziness (expecting money from me), then along with helping him, I would encourage him and help him to get on his feet, but I would encourage his wife not to look down on him because of that. After all, what are parents for if not being there for their kids all the times.
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unless guy is making it a habit, it should be fine.
I will not hesitate to ask parents for help if I know i m in the middle of the crises and they will not hesitate for a second too. Thats what family is. You should be there when your family need you similarly your family should be standing behind you when you are in need
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bekar insan normally have decent body since they have nothing else todo but workout .. 
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oh so many ladies are in this thread.Hi ladies 
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thats why they say shadi karo soch samajh k 
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and why are you telling me this? 
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not telling you “specifically” .. commenting on your post for rest of the ladies that there is other side of the story as well
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Out of curiosity, what would you lot say if the wife in the situation wasn't working and asking her parents for money? I know the men are the traditional breadwinners and they have a duty to provide etc etc, but in these changing economic climates this isn't always the case. So if a wife asked her parents to pay a few bills or pay off a few debts, would this have the same response? Although some parents might tell their daughter to take a running jump and go ask her husband, some women may not want to ask them cos they are embarassed/want to feel independent.
Also, what if the wife and hubby was working and the wife still needed to borrow money?
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No, I wont.
:k:
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noooope
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Out of curiosity, what would you lot say if the wife in the situation wasn't working and asking her parents for money? I know the men are the traditional breadwinners and they have a duty to provide etc etc, but in these changing economic climates this isn't always the case. So if a wife asked her parents to pay a few bills or pay off a few debts, would this have the same response? Although some parents might tell their daughter to take a running jump and go ask her husband, some women may not want to ask them cos they are embarassed/want to feel independent. Also, what if the wife and hubby was working and the wife still needed to borrow money?
Well to me, this is between wife and her parents. And with that said, i would do everything in my capacity to make sure that there is food on the table, along with security and everything that comes
with it. If she wants to borrow money, there is always credit line i could open just so she doesn't need to ask anyone else. It is true that times are tough but mushkil ka saathi..saathi na rah tu kaya bana.
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thats so many questions 
…i say open a separate thread…that is about ladizz parents… what you touched on…is a whole different ball-game altogether…