Re: Question for the guys
^ LOL. Was there such a thing back then? As in child abuse?
The challenge as I always saw was that in countries like Pakistan with limited educational opportunities, everytime some lady decides or is asked not to work, you have a decrease in available skilled resource capacity. Many of the universities are state funded so then tax layers (all 11% or so of population as rumours have it) are perpetually investing in resources which will not provide the expected return.
Different take on this topic
Ah your spelling mistake kills the thought sometimes. No big deal but I wanted to make it for fun............ j/k.:D
layers was = payers I know.
Anyhow what a great point!
Parents send the girl to a place she could be educated 'further'.
Husband comes along with a family with other intention and does not 'allow' her to go beyond. Very sad. :(
A girl/woman with some educational background should be allowed to (if she wants to) to pursue her intended career.
Men should marry a girl who is not so **career-educated ****if they wanted her to be exclusively stay at home moms. (SAHM)
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Re: Question for the guys
yeah that was an iphone posting, fat fingered it
yeah that was an iphone posting,fat fingered it
:D No comments.
Re: Question for the guys
darr gaye, edit kar di post? :D
darr gaye, edit kar di post? :D
It is an open forum you know..........:D
I could write a 'whole paragraph' on that.
Re: Question for the guys
Well,
The man should not marry a professional woman if he has intention to keep her "caged".
**The reason for marriage should be as neutral of financial reasons as it can be.
***diwana*
If she gets a great looking poor man to marry her just because she is rich, he is not far from a male gigolo or a boy-toy or you know what.
If he gets to enjoy the intimate company of a relatively poor female just because he spent the money on the dinner and drink etc. ........, she is not more than a ____.
For me it is the solo responsibility of a man to fetch her wife and if he can’t then he don’t deserve to get marry and increase the population.
At the time of my marriage, I didn’t take any dowry (my father also did the same thing at the tie of his marriage). I went along with my father & brother and after Nikkah bring her in my home. We excused our relatives for Baraat bcoz we didn’t put burden on girls family. We did a grand dinner for all relatives.
Although my wife is educated and was doing an attractive job with high salary but after marriage she refused to do the job as she feels comfortable at home and I never & ever think her as a burden .
Re: Question for the guys
a man 'fetches' her wife?
man hay ya cross gender kutta?
Man ko chaar din morning to night bachey sambhalney parh jaeen tu lagh pata jata hai.
Why! I have done it so many times, days and nights. I believe I can do it better than most mothers.
Re: Question for the guys
i fall in neither of the category. :hinna: