Hey!
**Before i start the topic id like to say that this topic isn't directed towards some one specifically and i would prefer that this be kept as a healthy discussion and no personal attacking and harsh wordings please. **
Recently, lets say in the last 4-5 years i have seen so many Pakistanis living abroad, born there, migrated there, or on study purposes have truly changed them selves completely. It is good to change with the environment but now girls hardly wear anything. Seriously, lots of my own class fellows & batch mates study there and wear such deep-neck shirts, very small length tops, mini skirts, strapless blouses etc. you all know what i mean. In every other picture, Pakistani boys and girls are seen posing for a photograph sticking to opposite gender people of other countries. I know they are just friends but aren't we Muslims? and also Pakistanis? This is really not our culture. I am not a narrow minded person and i also have friends but i think there should be a limit. Going to dance clubs and exposing so much of skin and hugging, kissing, drinking, fooling around etc people of other genders just in the name of 'friendship' that isn't wise.
I know many of you will say we don't do it and people we know don't do it. But the fact is that no matter how much anyone denies it, this thing is prevailing so much and is progressing so much day after day. Why have Pakistanis abroad totally forgotten their roots all of a sudden? I know here in Pakistan people are like this too but right now i am just focusing on Pakistanis abroad, there have been lots of discussions already on Pakistanis living in Pakistan being westernized. People in Pakistan have westernized but there is still a large majority that is still sticking to their roots.
Everyone should adapt to their environments, westernization and modernization but within limits. Wear jeans and skirts etc everything but at least we should be fully covered and some distance should be maintained with the other gender. Hanna? This isn't our culture or our religion, neither am i conservative person but to adopt so much to some one else's culture that you totally forget your own roots isn't right at all. What do you think?
I think dooms day near, this is one of the qayamat ki nishani.