Which one is/was more painful/difficult
The thought of you marrying and leaving your parent’s house, or
The thought of your daughter one day getting married and leaving you 
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Khariat?! 
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Wth
How did this land in bazaar talk
Khatti, haallpppp
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Wth
How did this land in bazaar talk
Khatti, haallpppp
Yar General men post karden, kuch nai kaha jaega..
should i?
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the thought of her leaving.....
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Wth
How did this land in bazaar talk
Khatti, haallpppp
Yar General men post karden, kuch nai kaha jaega..
should i?
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please yaar, do so
Why our culture does not promote ghar damaad 
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I'm a boy mom...sorry..no can halp :(
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I am there with you on this TLK.
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would you like to be one? (and I certainly do not mean to suggest that there is anything objectionable about anyone’s in-laws)
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I was just wondering related to the original question, would the pain be any lesser if there would be more daughters or more? Like for example earlier generations had more sons/daughters then we do now. I think it would be somewhat helpful to know that ok for example if two are married , there are three more at home..etc.
I would not mind, but to be fair, I would rather have new couple live on their own independently
I was just wondering related to the original question, would the pain be any lesser if there would be more daughters or more? Like for example earlier generations had more sons/daughters then we do now. I think it would be somewhat helpful to know that ok for example if two are married , there are three more at home..etc.
. I have two daughters, and it doubles my pain. Lol
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I was just wondering related to the original question, would the pain be any lesser if there would be more daughters or more? Like for example earlier generations had more sons/daughters then we do now. I think it would be somewhat helpful to know that ok for example if two are married , there are three more at home..etc.
Not really. Even if you have sons that doesnt help it. I read some where "A son is a son until he is married but a daughter is forever". I belief this to be true seeing myself and others in my family. I have 2 daughters and if both of them are gone just to school or my sister's home I am lost. I dont know what will happen when they are married and living with their husbands. Allah sab kay bachoon ko jahan rakhay khush rakhay ameen.
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It doesn't matter how many sons you have, daughter is always special.
I'm a boy mom...sorry..no can halp :(
Sons move out too eventually. :(
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I don't have a daughter but I think I'll be very happy for her to have her own home and husband and kids. I know how much I dreamed of having all this From the age of like...10? As a girl, it was awful to think leaving your parents behind but somehow we are programmed to come to terms with it. :D
but somehow we are programmed to come to terms with it. :D
Maybe because girls have something to look forward to. Parents on the other hand are saying good bye to their most precious possession.
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Don’t be so sad TLK…you have your niksik, okie. 
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Shaadi bhee to aik bazaar hai.
na-mard…
PS Wouldn’t you be happy with having the house to yourselves unless bhaabi serves only as a fill-gap “wife” who just serves as mom.
It isn’t like old days with a letter taking months to reach you. I guess the extra help manual or otherwise that kids might provide could be useful in old age.