Sadia I think you should listen to your husband and ignore your inlaws. You are not even living with them so let them say and do whatever they want …when you complain to ur husband you both have a fight and by doing this you are just helping people to enable them to spoil your relationship …
You both need counseling. Your husband is not thinking before saying what he is saying to you and offcourse you get hurt and then things get bitter between u two. You both need to control the words u use with each other.
Fights can happen in any relationship and they should not be a reason for ending a marriage. You take the 1st step in controlling the words you use with him and dont hurt him and when he says anything bad to you tell him tht u have an answer and can reply but u won’t because it only makes things bad and you don’t want to spoil ur marriage.
if he has any desire u save his marriage he will change too insha allah !