Kehne walay kaa mounh yaa sunnay walay ka?
my God!
Genius!!
Furreals? Bit rude ainchya?
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Slims…
Just be thankful she isn’t ‘trying’ to diss you in German!
…It would sound a lot harsher than it is…haha
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Probs wondering why she’s wearing such a short dress with those chunky legs.
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Some people dig chunky legs, some skinny legs, most ANY legs…PS: Why peoples can’t follow the instructions? Thread title says no ladies 
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I had been working on the art of looking away since I was in Pakistan. Not there were any skirts in Karachi, but there were pretty faces. So not gawking took some effort.
Landing in Dubai I saw I lot of legs. Looking away wasn’t a problem cause I had already been working on the skill back home. And everybody doesn’t have great legs so that helped. I mean most people’s legs are easy to ignore.
Houston airport is where I first caught sight of cleavage (in real life) through a low cut tank top. I don’t think I stared ( I was alone so my version of the story is all I got). But it was shocking for sure, knowing people do that in real life.
Haven’t been to the beach yet, so not sure how I’d fare over there.
It gets gross when people who shouldn’t be showing skin show skin, like people who have a lot of skin. That just kills the mood. When you see them, you just ask why? Why wouldn’t you buy clothes your size, I did not need to see that.
Okay, I have found myself checking out ass a couple of times. One time this girl was trying to sell me a security system for the house I was in (should not have opened the door) and she was dressed cute ( really short shorts and she wasn’t fat). So when I was done talking with her and she was walking away I just glanced at her ass (totally unintentional) and she had a water bottle in her hip pocket (how convenient). I think I got stuck there for a good 2 or 3 seconds. And then the legs and then I shut the door, Phew!
Being nangi patangi and looking good must be full time job, cause now you have your whole body to work on instead of just your face. Girls back home have it easy, LULs.
Another thing I did not anticipate before coming here are tattoos ( I know off topic ). You see a lot of people with ink over here, it’s just creepy. Why would people do that to themselves. It’s just beyond me. And booze at the grocery store, I mean booze at the frickin grocery store. You do have to have ID ( and be over 21 to buy it ), but booze at the grocery store.
PS1: I’ve been here six months
PS2: Love the thread.
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Why do we desis have this habit of dragging apne maa-behen into the discussion whenever we try to talk abt morals? Nothing sounds more offensive to my ears than when I hear the words ‘slutty’, ‘mother’, and ‘sister’ in the same line.
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Appreciate a proper on topic response…Thanks!!
You said you had been working on it backhome…to not stare…did you start working during your molvihood days or after you left the molvihood?
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You made my day… 
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I never indulged in group leering sessions like a lot a guys do (yeah I missed out on that ). Just didn’t have those kinda friends.
I guess the molvihood days played a part. When a first glance is all that can be forgiven, you tend to be very careful.
After that phase ended, another phase started in which I became more aware of the male privilege. I realized that noticing someone is one thing but staring is not okay. The outside world is tough place for women as is, I don’t wanna add to their misery.
I guess in end it all came down to realizing staring isn’t polite.
The urge to steal casual glances at pretty things stays (I guess), at least until you get hitched(not that I’ve ever been in a relationship, just guessing).
My pleasure. Not sure how I did that though (hint: I’m fishing for details 
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Ni Sayyo Asaan Naina De Akhay Lagay …
Naina De Akhay Lagay …
A few years I guess, and then you diversify your tarroo targets and focus more on the right Latina, Arab, and Asian nangi putangis. Oh yeah, Caribbean too
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Butt Sahib who is kidding who? what we consider bay Hayyayee back home
In the West it is called Art! and/or freedom of expression!
Your question can easily be answered by this misra sung by Gul Bahar Bano
**Kachee miti tu mahkay ge
hai mitti ke majboori** 
It depends a lot on what kind of background you are/ were used to in Pakistan.
I was around girls who regularly wore capris, sleeveless tops, strapless dresses etc. in Pakistan. Super hot, most of them, and quite a few of them were fine with showing a hint of cleavage or wearing skin-hugging outfits and the like. Showing off their legs was pretty much normal-ish, too. And I’m a girl, yes, but I can appreciate good looks. Being a Kashmiri I’m just.. used to prettiness. ;p
Basically what I’m saying, though, is that that kind of dressing was nothing out-of-the-ordinary for me. So when I went abroad for the first time, seeing women in strapless things or shorts or showing off their legs or cleavage, that was all very normal for me. Nothing new. Didn’t make me want to stare or anything. My male friends - who also came from the same background - all agreed. They’d only have the urge to stare if the girl was extraordinarily pretty or hot or something, much the same way as in Pakistan.
The only thing that was out of the ordinary was bikinis. And all the guys agreed that the urge to look at someone very hot never really goes away, it’s kind of natural, but decent guys can hide it right from the start. The guys who were with me talked about how hot so-and-so girl had been when the goris weren’t around, but they never gawked in front of any of the girls and, as far as I know, none of the goris ever felt uncomfortable around them, not even in the first week they were there. So basically, those guys were able to hide the urge to stare right from the start, and got used to it in a couple of weeks. Then it was just normal for them to see lots of women in bikinis. They’d only ever have the urge to stare if the girl was very hot (and no, they didn’t find all the girls hot. Once again, it has a lot to do with what you’re used to in Pakistan).
There were other desi guys, though - generally guys who’d lived very conservative lives in Pakistan - who’d gawk very openly for the first few weeks. And that was a turn-off for the desis and goris, both. Those guys got better at hiding it too, but there’s always that perverted look/ demeanor - some of them made it go away, some of them couldn’t and came to be referred to as ‘cheap/ pervs/ guys to stay away from,’ by the gorian themselves. shrug
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That is the idea … Offense switches off the sex drive