^Out of curiosity, what do these girls go through once they find that their husbands are cheating on them?
^ well they think its all their fault. Maybe they arent pretty enuff, arent good wives etc
but yeah its mainly themselves they blame and they go thru major depression.. neways no matter what, they shouldnt be feeling the way they do cus noone deserves a partner like that no matter how unpretty they are
Exactly :k: no one deserves a lying, cheating, and altogether deceiving partner like that. My heart goes out to the wives who end up in these nasty situations.
yeah... mine too but some of them really do need self-esteem classes
I wonder what the women who are kept ‘on the side’ feel about all this…I mean, why do they end up in relationships with married men (assuming that they go into them knowing that the person is married)? It just seems so low. I can understand having a relationship with a non-married guy but a married one? It’s really sick.
I’ve heard it said that married men are a challenge and a turn-on for women but for heaven’s sake, what is the turn-on in them? They’re married! I don’t know, maybe it’s me but I just don’t get it. In my eyes, single, eligible guys are much more attractive if I had a choice between married or single because at least they’re available.
Ayiyayai 
Does everything need an Islamic perspective? I beleive the post was directed to the not-so-religious clan. Lust is natural. For certain people, there is nothing that satisfies these tendencies except lust. Everyone is lying if they say they will never do it. Everyone is tempted. Its human nature.
^I agree but lust needs to be controlled too. We're human beings after all, not jaanwar who would hump anything and everything that moves.
And no yaar, this thread wasn't opened for the fundos. It's basically a non-religious oriented thread but I see that guppies have inserted religion into the picture as well...nothing wrong with that either though if that's what they want to convey. But yeah, I was coming at this thread strictly from a secular perspective.
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*Originally posted by armughal: *
1) i never said pakistanis dont need teachings
2) i dont make the jirga laws and i dont approve of them
3) "if they r bad, its ok for us to be bad too" is a very bad excuse
4) i dont live in pakistan and i can never live in that place
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mughal sahab
I only have an issue when statements like these are made
u american desis really show how much u all lack the knowledge of Quran and how seriously u r in need of good Islamic teachings....
kher..maybe your intent was not bad, just the english composition, and that the "u all" was not meant to be refer to all american desis. Makes a case for being careful in choosing the structure of the sentences and choice of words especially when discussing sensitive topics like these.
^ Well-said, Fraudz :k:
In light of Irem's recent thread about people having two faces/so roop, this thread is an excellent example of such a thing.
Sweetpie, I cannot answer you Qs because of so many girls pouring in…
Let me sleep on it…I will answer you in the morning… 
