Re: Question about the dress
Behna … I think I said yes. And I also think you got my point right as many of the people here didn’t except Br. Croquet. My simple point was a woman can dress whatever she wants in front of the husband as long as the husband also wants it to be that way and similarly a husband can bring dresses for his wife to wear in front of him as long as the wife has no objection to it either. I was only refering to husbands who treat their wives as some human silohuettes and put on them what they please to see whether their wife is comfortable doing it or not. This is a matter of mutual understanding between the couple not religious fatwas.
Sir Dig a Lot keep digging until you understand what I meant.
Just remember one thing, that having an Abaya over the dress covers it all and no one would know what you are wearing underneath anyway. If you are in a ladies only gathering and decide to take off your Abaya to show your dress then that would not be right because it would expose your Aurah, which is haram even for other muslim women. You can dress or undress in front of your husband because religiously there is nothing against it. If you can’t do it front of him then who else (except your doctor).