Would you marry someone knowingly that they were not straight in their past? I know a family who are marrying a guy who had previous flings with different other guys. I’ve heard about this dude from college and other friends how he was the most flamboyant Pakistani gay dude. Now he’s getting married to this seedhi saadhi girl. The worst part is that the girl knows that this dude was like that. She knows his past history. And visually when you meet him he acts in a homosexual manner. Not there is nothing wrong with it, but would you marry someone like that? Knowing that he might have engaged in homosexual activity, this goes for women as well. Please discuss.
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No. Too much baggage. Will probably end in heartache.
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No. A straight man needs to act like a straight man. Can’t be dealing with former gay tendencies. 
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as a woman, hell to the no! I don’t see why her parents are pushing her into this trap of a marriage. clearly he hasn’t gotten “over” his homo tendencies considering he still “acts” it when you meet him. No sane woman who had a choice in her life (i say choice because many parents force their children to marry) would want to marry someone like this guy. or maybe that’s just me.
Can we flip the question and ask guys if they would marry a lesbian?
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lebainese woman are the beutifull too so why the not?
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There are no homosexuals in Pakistan. The first one to disagree with me will be the first… not that there is anything wrong with that.
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any queer would tie the knot.
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Nope.
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Nope, I’d advise this girl to stay well clear - gay’ism can’t be deprogrammed. Speaking of latent gay tendency, I’ve actually been approached by a Brit. PAki couple friend of mine who are really liberal and the guy is known to have ahem, dabbled in gay’ism - they basically want me to sleep with the wife while he watches! I told him to never contact me again. I ain’t like that no more, I’m a reformed fellow. Like I said, gay tendencies are very difficult to get rid of - I advise to stay well clear of the gays.
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Hmm it’s hard to tell if he is or not. I mean for me it’s not because I have a gaydar, but I think the poor parents can’t tell because his gay hand gestures are rather subtle. I can tell and it makes me wonder like “Ok dude that was not a straight thing”. You know what I’m saying? I guess the girl’s family doesn’t know. But the girl definitely knows.
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Hmm you say Gayism can’t be deprogrammed but I’ve got an update on the situation where someone told me that the guy has convinced the girl that he has no feelings for guys anymore and that he’s completely in love with her. I guess perhaps that has changed her mind, she probably believes him now.
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Only one way to know - tell him to take his pants off and stick gay porn on, you’ll get your answer. Straight blokes go limp even at the thought of gayism.
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I dont think the girl will perform any tests like that. I guess she’ll just have to find out later. But it boggles my mind, how she can agree to live with someone with such a past. Like you said gayism can never be reverted.
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I would keep my sister a million miles away from such a beta ph.aggot. Just saying!
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What if he’s Bi-curious, and was just experimenting. A real gay guy would never agree for a straight marriage.
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Often, people like that only get married because of family and society pressure. I would be very skeptical and would avoid such a man at all costs.
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Shrien Diwani? Allegedly
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Any guy who can get physically attracted to another guy has latent gay tendencies - such people are to be avoided, such men can’t make good leaders of a family. Lesbains on the other hand, i’m kool with that!
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this.