question about concieving

[Paheli00]

Re: question about concieving

@suhaina

my recently married couisn husband doesnt want kids for few years and she is very worried about it she heard it is difficult to concieve once you are above 30 or more then 30 and even if u r not above 30 **if initialy u dont try to concieve later u got problems **as our aunty said to her(bad main bacha hone main bohot problems hongi)

it is true or all wrong and false thing?

Suhaina: The part I highlighted in bold is false. There is no scientific evidence that even indicates that if a couple does not try to conceive initially in the marriage, they will have problems later on. Women are generally considered “high risk” once they reach 35. But there are plenty of women (including my own mother) who get pregnant and have healthy babies in their late 30’s. A lot of this also depends on the woman’s individual body (ie. her medical history).

I’m assuming that the aunty giving your cousin advice is not a gynocologist. If I’m right, then please tell your cousin to stop listening to this aunty. The best advice for your cousin is to go visit a gynocologist, have a full check-up, discuss her medical history, and then ask the gyno for medical FACTS regarding this.