quesion for ladies

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If he wants to earn sawab, he can give her money....I wouldn't have a problem with my husband giving someone money, as he earns it and he decides where he can spend it..but cmon, stop fooling ppl with these lame excuses...u marry someone, cz u like them, thats it...

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What do you mean by loyalty? Do you mean he will marry her but not consummate the relationship?

Regardless of your definition, no co-wives for me. I'm happy either single or in a monogamous relationship.

Even him considering such a possibility would damage our relationship even if it does not break on a piece of paper because in a way I would have lost him anyway at the level of emotions and intentions.

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pata nahi mujhay lag raha hay ..main apna sawal sahee terah say nahi pooch paayee

shaid yeh bat kisi or tareeqay say poochnay cheye thee

insan ko zindge main sirf PAisa he nahi chaeye hota ...app sub ik hee jawab day rahay ho ..us ko fainancialy support ker dain

ya to app sub log jannat main rehtay hain ...jo masaail ki aqsaam say nawaqif hain

ya baykhabar rehna chahtay hain

well

replies perh ker maza aya ...

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Mrs is saint. :salute:

or you bother her too much :hmmm:

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If I was a women, and faced with this situation, I would ask just one question: "What the hell have you been drinking?!" :p

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i think i will laugh at him after hearing these dialogues.....

very funny. NO WAY

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If you were referring to me, no I don't expect him to not consummate the relationship..by loyalty i mean having him completely to myself

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If she wants moral support, she can look for it in friends or among single men. Other than that, I don't really see any problems that can't be solved by money...

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Sahi kaha aapne, insaan ko sirf paisa nahi chahiye hota hai. Agar aisa hota, to yeh saari larkiyan haan keh deti apne husbands ko kyunki wo

sirf uske paise/financial support se khush ho jati. Insaan ko commitment aur loyalty bhi chahiye hoti hai jo wo aur kisi se baantna pasand nahi

karta, khaas taur se jab romantic relationships ka sawal hota hai.

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I was referring to P_G :)

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insaan sawab kay liye shadi nahin karta, chahay mard ho ya aurat.

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i got your point .......... then find someone else suitable for her i mean who is also divorced or something like that.........

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You should have seen few of the couples which I have seen :omg:

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khumaar > sahee bat to yeh hay k insan SAWAB hee k ley shadi kerta hai

kabhi ghor kejeye ga : )

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Wah wah, kya baat kee hai. Bohut aala. 100% true.

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P_G aap mujhe koi aisi shaadi ki misaal day dian jo keh sawab kay liye ki gayi ho. Sach to yeh hai keh log shadi kartay hain to ya to family kay pressure ki wajah say, ya phir un ko aisa lagta hai keh woh ready hain shadi kay liye, ya phir un ko koi aisa banda mil jata hai jis ko woh itna tolerate kar saktay hain keh wo un kay saath apni rahi sahi zindagi guzar sakain, jaisi bhi woh ho. Kaafi dafa yeh bhi hota hai keh log bachay paida karnay kay liye shadi kartay hain.

Agar koi aap say yeh aa kar kehta hai keh mainay sawab kay wastay shadi karni hai to woh duniya ka sab say bara jhoot hai aur is kisam kay banday say door rehna chahiye. Agar aap kisi kisam kay disillusionment main rehna chahti hain to woh sirf aap ka masla hai, na keh doosron ki na-samajh.

And no, the Prophet doesn't count as an example in this situation.

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What PG is saying Khumar ke loug Shadi is liye kertay hain kyun ke the other alternative is Zina which is gunah. That is what she meant when she said ke Shadi sawab ke liye kee jaati hai.

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Ghor se dekha jaye to insaan (musalman) gunah se bachne ke liye shaadi karta hai. Sawab paane mein aur gunah se bachne mein shayad actions ka fark na ho, par niyat ka thoda fark toh zaroor hota hai.

Aur khumaar ki baaki baatein bhi sahi hai jab practical aur cultural nazariye se dekha jaye to.

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Even then, I doubt anyone is thinking about zina or halal. In any case, that is not the question P_G asked.

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I know that is not the question that she asked. I was just trying to explain her Shadi/Sawab comment.