Re: quesion for ladies
since when two women have happily shared a husband? a woman by nature is jealous and I am not sure if you know this or not but umhat ul momineen used to be jealous of each otehr as well, yes the wives of our holy prophet (saw) so you cant condemn jealousy in a woman!!!aur haqooq main kami kiun nahin ati.. he has to islamically spend equal time with both of them.. so if this isnt for “spending time” together easons then why can’t just she take the financial support and let the couple stay married? why does she need to be his wife if she wants to let go of her rights?
jis “amal” pe aap itna zor dey rahi hain us ki ijazat hai sirf us halat main hai jab husband do biwi sey insaaf kar sakay and in the same ayah it says its not possible and is recommended to have one if he believes that he will be unable to do justice to them!!!
well I no longer want to argue with you.. in my opinion second marriage creates imbalance in a perfect healthy marriage thus it’s “ghara kharab karna” and Islam doesnt support creating disturbance either!!!
If my husband had such thoughts, he can go ahead, marry the so called needy woman and live with her.. for me he is neither loyal nor worth being married to… that other woman can have him all without any justification or hard feelings!! Peace!