quesion for ladies

[Rasmalaii]

Re: quesion for ladies

@P_G

let me clear sum points ..

when i said your husband want to marry other women (divorced or widow ..who has a baby from her husband too)

so there is very less chance that you think your husband makes lame excuses like earning sawab or help .. coz no one wants to take extra reponsiblities in thier lives … insaan Assanioon ko dhoondta hai .. its really difficult when someone decied to take responsibilties( like accepting baby of that women ) of other person ..is it easy task ?

second

when i said you know your husband loyalty with you… so its simply means that when your husband says that his intention towards this marriage decision just for helping that women or her family not for any sex desires So u should trust on him .(well again i said its all depends how much u know your husband’s nature ) ..

**third **

when he asking to your support or permission doesnt it show that he will be care full in future about Rights of both wives ?

listen girls

and what i mean by SAWAB .. your huband loves you ..he living complete life.. he doesnt feel any need to marry with other women … his life is so smooth calm and happy

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app k husband us family ko personally jaantay hain ..or un k masaail k i noyet aysee he hai k agar woh us khatoon say shaadi ker lain to

madad ho saktee hai ..to yeh NAIK neyat he kehlaye gee ?

well

ab yeh bat kehna k sawaab kamaanay k bohat say tareeqay hain namaz perho roza rakho …yeh alag behas hai.. yahan sawab kamaanay kay tareqoon per discussion nahi ..sirf yeh bata maqsad hay k is ammal main NEyat kia hai

sum one said in this thread ..kissi k naik iraday main madad kernay main app ka bhi utna hee hisa hay jitnay kernay walay ka ..ab yeh app ki sooch hai k app is ko benift samjhain ya nahi

ab yeh to her insaan ka apna zarf hai k woh ker payee ya nahi !is main koi zabadastee nahi ..

thanks for all replies.. : )

the guy can support her financially, why does he need to marry her? Nowadays it’s really hard for men to be equally fair to both wives, and to make sure neither feels jealous or less favored. My mumani was widowed when she was only 1 month pregnant with her son. She was offered marriage proposals too but she never married because she didn’t want some ghair aadmi living with her and her kids. So this uncle (married with kids) who her husband worked for, offered to pay her her husbands salaray every year until her son got a degree and was working. She’s happy, her kids are happy.
Moral of the story, insaaniyat dikhaanay ke bohat saaray raastay hotay hain. I understand the husband feels bad, and might even feel obligated to help her out, but one shouldn’t take a decision in which others wouldn’t be happy with.