Hi Guys This Is a Serious Problem For Me
My next-Door Neigbour does not talk to anyone. He Lives Alone, He is seen in and out of His House But Nobody has ever seen him Talk.
He has been like this for many years.
Why is he like this? Could He Be Up To Something?
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relax. some people just don't like to socialize. If he's been like this for 15 years, it's unlikely he's going to change. maybe he just finds it awkward to talk to neighbors or just doesn't know what to say. He has a life outside the neighborhood obviously, so that's why he's always leaving. Don't read too much into it.
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The man is perhaps anti-social for some reason and you automatically assume he wants your ass. Talk about living in a fantasy!
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Amir,
It's not mandatory for your neighbor to interact with other people in the neighborhood. Perhaps he's simply a private person by nature. There are many people who prefer to keep to themselves. That's what I love about my neighborhood. If we run into each other, we nod/smile/say hello and nobody would refuse if there's an emergency and you need help. But for the most part everyone minds their own business and I like that.
And "queer" is a subjective subject. For all you know, this guy might find his neighbors to be "queer."
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Thanks, U Guys.
Forget say hi or bye or smile he does not even look towards anyone.
What can we do about him..
Guys you really have to think deep and wide for me on this one.
Is he Ill?
Could He be hiding something about his life. could he have a dangerous secret?
Should I Be Afraid of him?
Or could it be he is just plain deaf?
Some serious advice needed people I dont feel comfortable when hes around.
Something is Defintely not right
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be thankful.
Be reasonable here, Amir. You said this guy has been living in your neighborhood for many years…so during all these years…has he ever given you any reason to be afraid of him?** Has he ever hurt or threatened anyone in the neighborhood?** If not, then just accept the fact that he wants to maintain his privacy and leave him alone.
“Does he have a dirty or dangerous secret?” Really…is it anyone’s business? If this guy is not bothering anyone, then his personal life is nobody’s business. Is this guy interested in knowing **YOUR **dirty secrets? Doesn’t seem like it.
“Is he plain deaf?” It could be. Or it could be that he’s not a social person. Look, in Pakistan, my grandfather’s house was connected to his sister’s house. His sister (my dad’s phoopi) was our neighbor. She hardly talked to anyone. She didn’t say hello. She didn’t smile. She didn’t acknowledge our presence although we were her relatives. She lived all by herself in her tiny little house. It was difficult to initiate conversation with her because her moods were unpredictable. Why was she like this? Her husband had left her years ago and she only had one daughter whom she raised with so much love and so many hopes. Daughter got married and had two children. Then she lost her only daughter and her two grandchildren in an accident many years ago. She basically lost her whole family. Efforts were made to reach out to her, but they weren’t always effective as she preferred to keep to herself. Personal problems can cause people to withdraw from others, that doesn’t necessarily mean that the individual is dangerous.
If you are THAT concerned about this “queer” neighbor, then go up to him and say **“Hi. how are you? You’ve lived here for years and I just wanted to say hi. At times you seem upset. I just wanted to know if everything is okay.”
**If he responds, good. If he doesn’t, he’s not obligated to. If he’s not disturbing anyone, leave him alone and mind your business.
lolssssssssssssssssssssssssssss
queer i thought amir found out that u r his neighbour
amir… i dont even know who r these ppl who live nxt door 
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Thanks r.v
He hasnt Talked to anyboidy for years…and he doesnt look upset nor happy from his face?
He Neither Rich Nor Poor.
Hes neither Old nor Young.
I cant help noticing how he isnt noticing anyone.
What can we do about him.
I dont know if i should approach him. Is it better if i say Hi, or is it better to say Hello.
Should i approach him wearing a t-shirt or wearing a jacket. Because he never wears T-Shirts.
Queer…any advice?
Amir…Do you think about what you write sometimes or no??? Is this thread of yours a JOKE? Is this your idea of FUNNY??? Because it seems like it’s a joke, as the questions are odd. Or are you drunk???
“Is it better if I say hi, or is it better to say hello?” First of all, Amir, the words “hi” and “hello” mean the same thing. It won’t make much of a difference.
Secondly, why the hell does it matter if you approach this guy wearing a t-shirt or a jacket??? Are you trying to please him or something?? Who cares if this guy never wears a t-shirt. He doesn’t have any desire to wear t-shirts like other people because he’s confident/secure enough to wear whatever he wants to wear. Why are you so concerned about pleasing him? As long as one is dressed decently, is all that matters.
“He’s neither rich nor poor”.…okay, so he’s a middle-class fellow. Big deal! Many people belong to the middle class.
“He doesn’t look upset or happy” If he’s not upset, then that’s good. Not being upset or happy is a fairly normal facial expression. You will find it on many people.
“He hasn’t talked to anybody for years.” OMG…I’ve lived in my neighborhood for years and there are people I’ve never talked to…and they haven’t talked to me. And it’s no big issue.
“He’s neither old nor young.” Okay…so?
Look…it’s not mandatory for this guy to talk to anybody. Just go up to him and say hi, how are you, you seem worried to me at times, is everything okay. That’s it!
I don’t understand why you’re making a big deal about a guy who has lived in your community for years and hasn’t bothered anyone. Leave him alone, he’s not hurting anyone. You make it seem like he’s going to show up at your window in the middle of the night with a chain-saw.
Amir…you’re worrying about what whether you should wear a shirt or a jacket when you approach this guy. Are you sure you aren’t QUEER?
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^ R.V
Thanks for your suggestions.
But this is a serious concern for me, similar to other thread openers on life.1.
Like other people I too sometime have insecurities even over the smallest things.
If thats unacceptable to you then nobody is forcing you to post.
And i dont entertain Liquour. So Watch it Your Mouth.
I feel utterly disrespected. Now Im Going.
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LOL @ the title. 
It’s not that I find your **“insecurities” ** unacceptable…it’s just that I find them to be unreasonable. Even if you were to approach this guy, your conversation most likely would be only a for a few minutes. What does it matter if you’re wearing a shirt or a jacket? He’s not your boss, your relative, your father-in-law that you need to impress him. I doubt that he’d even care about what you’re wearing as long as it’s decent. If this meeting were to take place, it would be casual…so the attire should be casual. I apologize if you feel disrespected, that wasn’t my intention. Yes, I’m aware that nobody is forcing me to post and I’m not basing my decision/right to post based on your “insecurities.” LOL.
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dont know about t-shirt or jacket, but if he's queer for real and you have a sweet booty (your posts often make me feel you do), i'd not recommend wearing a dhoti. keep yourself facing him at all times during the conversation. dont offer to pick up any quarters he might accidentally drop. you get the drift, pindi pai..
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^i don't. plz be more explicit. kthx.
dont know about t-shirt or jacket, but if he's queer for real and you have a sweet booty (your posts often make me feel you do), i'd not recommend wearing a dhoti. keep yourself facing him at all times during the conversation. dont offer to pick up any quarters he might accidentally drop. you get the drift, pindi pai..
Queeeeeeeeeeer! U are responding to amir_pindi's thread? What's gotten into YOU!?
Umm, good observation and concern on you behalf amir_pindi.
If I were you, I think I would just say hi just to see his reaction. There's obv a 50-50 on him being a nice guy, OR, another Joseph Fritzl....
I'd say go for it, say hi! Also, have you noticed anything else funny about him? Like, does he have visitors? Does he step out of the house at weird times.. or leaves the basement light open.
Like I said, too much of Rear Window n Joseph F stuck in my mind.