Re: Queen of the kitchen
Lol, i didn’t mean its terrible to live apart. in my own family 90% of the people live in neutral families, not in joint families. All the problem i have is that if you want to do each and every thing in your life your way, then why you don’t make any issue of it at your own parent’s house. why don’t you move out of your parent’s house?
also, i am a strong supporter of the fact that if you want to live without in-laws then you should be upfront about it at the time of rishta. you should clearly state that you would not want to live with in-laws and then let the other party decide if they want to go ahead or not. But what most of the girls and their families do, is they never state such thing at that time, in fact make it appear like their girl is “Mil jul ker rehne wali larki”, and then just within months of wedding the girl starts to demand a separate home. That’s the mindset that i disapprove of.