Re: Queen of the kitchen
i lived with in.laws for 2 months after my wedding and now they live with us since 2 months. they are here till august.
my mil is extremely messy.she cleans but not as good as me. when she washes the dishes she just runs water and doesnt use fairy. she doesnt let me do work but i hate it when she does it because its all dirty. she is a good soul. very kind and humble.
now my fil..he is the kithen king. and no he isnt that amazing chef but he is just bossy and want his way of cooking. i make salan…he comes add half a cup of oil to it. and explains that how salan are made. i fry chicken first in ginger garlic..he comes and remove it and add tomato cut in halves only. he will add his salan masala…too much salt…basically all things that i wont ever think of doing with a salan. now in ifaris…he add cup of water to me chat…add water to my chutney…add half a cup of sugar to my milkshakes…when i beleive in natural smoothies.
try living with that. it used to bother me in the beginning but itdont anymore. i just nod and say ji ji. at the end of th day if they are happy eating that way then why make a fuss.
and my husband like it when i cook. but obviously he has eaten his parents food since ever so its not.like he will suddenly refuse to eat their way of food and request mine only.
i guess you should just listen to your mil. life is not a competition
The thing is that your in laws are at your place for a short while. So at the back of your mind you know you dont have to tolerate their interference for too long. Thats not the case with OP.