pyar

kya waqi love insan ko responsible bna daita ha?

what is real defination of love

insan ko pyar aur dosti ma se kis ko important dani chaie at the time of marrige???
frnd ya love?

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Post # 1: No idea.. everyone is different, no one knows whether every person will be more responsible after finding love.

Post#2: Not sure. Will say when I can.

Post #3: Hmm.. not sure what your asking. Clarify that one please :)

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I don't think you know what love is only till after you're married.

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^ some know it well before marriage :)

:CareBear:

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well nai shadi ke baad ke pyar ka dusara naam majobri

It will be fine :hug:

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awwaa thnx for the hug
:D

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cant say anything abt luv....
but
the best form of luv is between ALLAH n HUMAN....if u r true muslim

If you believe on the above statement what you said....then aap koi ho iss majbori main. Allah raham karay.

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^^ nai me is majbori me to nai hun..
general si eik baat kardi he
mafi cahti hun

hummm i think u shud give importance to ur love...... n if u have a true friend he/she will cooperate with u in this matter :)

love ki defination is.... very simple but ppl make it soo hard...

when u care bout someone n u know wht he/she likes n dislike u try to do it their way. u sometimes dun eat something n a hotel or restaurant n order wht he/se likes cuz of the budget. In ur life u give her/him more importance then ur self. when urthinkn of them n the day n b4 going to sleep. when u want to talk to them like n the most busiest times of ur day when u wake up n the morning n u got her/his face n ur eyes n u shake ur head thinkn WHT THE HECKK!!!. IN SHORT N SIMPLE *when ur world revolves around them :) *

N al lof this shows tht by caring bout someone u also get responsible bout ur things n others :)

Pyar Vyar sub emotional batain hain, Just have good time & go for an Arranged marriage! at least if things wudnt work out, u can blame parents!..Love marriage mein Kia karo gey?

yeah, shaadi keh bad Pyar ho he jata hai..

JJ, it happens in every relationship, fact of the matter is, whn a GF becomes a wife, its pretty hard to handle. i have seen very few couples having a successfull life with former GF. i doubt it, our parents fell in love first n got married, but Allhumdiliah, marriages from 60's,70's & 80's are successful cuz they were arranged.

marriages from 60's, 70's and 80's are successful because back in the days many women were brought up with the thought that no matter what you're going through you HAVE to stay at your in-laws...they were told by their parents we only wanna see you out of that house when you're dead!!! Also, mojority of women were not very educated and if divorced they had no support by their families and they were not strong enough to be independent because of our society values. Whereas now things are very different....more and more girls have started to stand up for themselves and try to fight injustice as much as possible and that is what's causing the divorce ratio to go up

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^^ but the marriages were Successful in old days, Divorce ratio in Love marriages is around 80% nowadays..

let me tell u something marriages were succesfull bak then because men at that time were real men they knew how to control their mother n wife now men mostly are biwi kay ghulam ya mommies boy.its tottaly men’s fault they dont know how to control women anymore:disgust:

Instead of using the word “control” for women lets say men knew how to balance his relationships

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partguys another reason fortht is cuz when we r strangers we try to live by our spouse rulez we dun expect nehting from them cuz we dun realy know how they r.
but with a gf bf thingi its tht OH MY GOSH u sued to do this for me b4 nbring flowers for mnu always werre on time...blah blah