Re: punishing hubby by denying sex
yeah but that’s not necessarily punishment…
she’s saying it cuz she’s hurt that he forgot the day they were both married… to her its not just the wedding date he forgot, but its also the day she entered his life as his wife and him forgetting that makes her feel like she is insignificant to him… if he wants to touch her after forgetting about their anniversary and making her feel insignificant then its like so im just good for sex but not special enough for you to remember when u brought me into your life as your wife 
its still related to the emotional connection…men just take it as dammit its just a number on a calendar i forgot and now she’s punishing me…she’s not … its just that when she feels otherwise insignificant (i.e. bruised emotionally) you asking for sex makes her feel worse because then its like so thats all i am to you