Public display of affection to wife/husband:
I have seen someone where the hubby is 50 and the wife 30, was embarassed being around them. Why don’t some people have any sense? You should have some ettiquetes not to do things infront of family
So what if u lived abroad all your life? It doesn’t make u a gora or a gori. This was the first weird case I saw.
More than one aspect to this post I address one at a time.
Once I was in a championship(my first time out side of pak)
So many people were over from so many countries.(N-amreekan, Europe, south american )
Their we so many beautiful women over.(99.99 single).
There was a french athlete with his wife. I didn't see her sitting any where but on that guys lap.
Kissing touching 24/7.
She wasn't ,by far, as pretty as other girls.
3 days gone an Uzbek coach attempts RAPE guess who was the victim ??????
Same french girl(athlete's wife).
Oh My God thats a horrible event...What happened after that?How did you guys find out was it all over in the news etc
I think there needs to be a balance between 2 extremes
One extreme is what we see in the West mostly (and maybe some places in the East too, I dont know), where couples are openly making out in public and even groping each other etc. The other extreme is what we see in many countries back home, where the guy walks 3 feet in front of the wife, wont even put his arm around her to protect her if need be, not sitting close next to each other, practically ignoring etc.
The balance needs to be one where modesty and diginity are still upheld and love and affection is still present. I dont see anything wrong with holding hands, putting an arm around, a hug, feeding from hands, laughing, etc, things like this are natural and normal. But things like kisses and more, Islamically speaking should not be done in front of a crowd. Intimate relations are called intimate for a reason, they are private and not meant to be shared with the eyes of the entire world