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dumped? excuse me .....no im still happily married..and no u have no right to say anythng abt my personal life
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..nd im showing the real face of men..which u hardly get to see.....
Are you into showing affection to your significant other in Public ? What do you do ?
Mirchi bhaii kis kisam kaa affection and kaun se country mein 
aap kisi kisam kaa affection bhi dikhaa saktey ho aap ki marzi.from holding hands to everything.
I can think of the most intimate thing a desi married couple can do in public is to hold hands. Share a drink or share food.
agar aap West ki baat kar rahey ho seriously aap ke up bringing per depend karey gaa aap public mein kaya kerna chahtey ho.Modern desi to khuch bhi ker sakta hai he doesn’t care.
**In Pakistan even that will be a problem the Police can demand you to show your nikhah nama. **
You can find news in Pakistani newpaper about people getting arrested for being intimate in public. Pakistani newspapers have a term for it “Qabil a Aitraz Halat.” I do not know how do they define this term. If you know please do not hasitate to share.
Thanks for information hamein bhi nahi pata
Can you think of other ways which can be within the framework of our culture and religion ?
mujhe yeh samjh nahi aa rahi aap poochna kaya chah rahey ho like what more do you want to do french kissing kerni hai to ker lo aap ki marzi aur is se barh ker aap agey jana chaho to woh bhi ker saktey ho and pakis west mein aa ker jo culture apnatay hain woh phir western hota hai.West mein to log aap ko her tarah ki position mein nazar ayein gay yeh aap per depend kerta hai ke aap kitnay open minded ho and kis had tak porno bardasht ker saktey ho.
**Pakistani and Muslim background will pose a problem to go beyond certain limits , some might not agree with me . **
If you do not agree why not ?
mein is sawaal kaa jawaab nahi doon gi.
What about if you are just engaged what are the limits ?
Engagemnt to koii cheez hai hi nahi hai
What about if your Nikhah was performed but no rukhsatee yet ? What are the limitations in this case ?
mujhe nikkah key baad rukhsati ke liye wait kerney ki koii tuk samjh nahi aati I am seriously against this thing ke ji nikkah kara liya ab larka larki wait karein this is plain BS nikkah hoa baat khatam agar larkay mein dam hai to saath hi ley jaye girl ko otherwise nikkah kerney ki zaroorat nahi.And to be clear "nikkah ke baad her cheez jaiz hai chahey larki apney parents ke ghar ho yaa husband key"it doesn’t matter.
P.S. ab Pakistan mein public mein bhi log isloo mein to araam se haath daal ker tehal rahey hotay hain.
And eik point aur Pak mein husband wife to kam hi haath mein haath daaltey hain jitnay friends aapis mein daal ker phirtay hain jaisay doosri kashti ke musafir hon Why is that?
dumped? excuse me .....no im still happily married..and no u have no right to say anythng abt my personal life
If you are happily married then why are you such a men basher ? There is something wrong somewhere. Nobody is interested in your personal life , you are such a men basher and man hater there has to be some background for it.
..nd im showing the real face of men..which u hardly get to see.....
You can only show real face of men only if you have first hand experience otherwise it can only be a theory.
nope...cuz it confuses kids
i often see kids (my cuzins kids) asking their parents there why they were not invited to their parents wedding?
besides, everything should leads towards neutrality. whereas showing affection in public really is an extreme form of expression> tamasha lagana....as if you have no sense of "particularity", or carelessness even for ur own emotions.
if seeing their parents holding hands is going to "confuse" the kids, then i'd get those kids checked out for some mental condition. Seriously, where do u come with this crap?
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When we are among desi crowd, nothing more than holding hands because otherwise you get stares of even budhey uncles.
When we are in American crowd, we sometimes hold hands, a little peck on the cheek, and may be a hug. Nothing long or more than that.
Thanks… so it is Fasadi :D, J/K
I know it is Faisalabad… was just messin with ya :-p
Guys, agree/disagree with each other as much you like or be like Faisal Bhai (such a neutral person, WOW) but please, do not start a pissing contest by calling names to each other… otherwise, I will have to agree with Faisal bhai that every issue is related to Education (or lack of it) :halo: not that I ever disagreed (just saying)
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^ Accha. I will revise.
I find it highly disturbing, not to mention a sign of severe retardation that you people can take a matter that is of personal choice and try to make it somehow “wrong” or “immoral”. Is that better? :halo:
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i wasnt offended…sorry if my post sounded that way. Oh and yes i know im cute 
zobia…this post doesnt make any sense! 
[quote="Mirch"]
If you are happily married then *why are you such a men basher *? There is something wrong somewhere. Nobody is interested in your personal life , you are such a men basher and man hater there has to be some background for it.
yea so wht? if i said sumthing negative abt u men?...or did it hurt u alot? awwaaaa i feel sorry for u now...and yeah ..i dont need to tell u each and every background of my life...nd stop gttng too personal!!
every second guy in our society is like that...wht else do u expect from me? jhuti tareefen?
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we will stop getting personal if ya stop generalizing 
Wow
From where did you get this?
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u want me to pick on every individual then? na baba itna time nai he
first lets not ruin so many years we put on educating ourselves. it is obvious that in order to present our opinion we not necessarily have to experience it first. we simply can study, do the research, and write an essay on it. whereas let me be more biased and add more to it that “Our experiences confines our thinking, and then makes us call our cognition, our perception”.
so uncle faisal’s 65 years of experience is a single point perception.
every society whether it is east or west has evolved a lot, especially after the advent of digital media. masses who rarely get opportunity to practice voyeurism have now countable mediums readily available.
as they say “Se* sells” so yes it does. at the time when “Qabil a Aitraz Halat” made the headline, the demand was there (as it never disappeared), but the supply was contingent.
but now look at the trend. as this thing did appear as a “thread” over here on GS, but did it actually appeared on any prestigious newspaper as an alarming trend?
Mirch, as you asked about showing affection to your wife. i think you better ask this question to yourself that whether you wana show it to your wife or you wana put it for public.
in west this trend is normal because 1. people have become way too material and material has lot to do with showoff, so they have to show others that this person ““love”” him/her.
2. they have become workaholic and they barely get time to spend at home. so like everything else they show their emotions are also worthless and they freely express them anywhere they want to. (remember you protect those things which are precious to you)
as many people don’t get the religious aspect (ref: try to get information on Prophet Lot AS Quam and the “Bay-hayee” His (AS) quom did and what happened to them, which then leads to formation of a salt lake dead sea (besides post #6 of this thread)) i brought in “Parents-children” aspect, as parents proclaims that what ever they do, they do it for their children.
there is this model that is used by media associates. this model which is known as Hypodermic Needle Model is applied especially when someone is advertising their product/service (where they psychologically enforce consumers to buy/practice that product/service, even if they are watching erotic scene in a big-dark cinema and then kis* themselves).
there is this, a very known practice in our society that if you want your child to be Hafiz-e-Quran or want him/her to learn more languages, you put them in those particular institution at a very young age because “kachay zaihan” absorbs everything they see-read-learn. so now its up to you whether you want them to be a kid or peeping Tom!
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lol... zobo you have also started writing like uncle arjay :D
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Zobia auntie, you are trying too hard. It all sounds fascinating. Can you please summarize your conclusions for the rest of the masses? Thank you.
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hah
hahaha… I think you put the punch line at the beginning instead of putting it at the end and that knocked off everyone before proceeding to read it further:clown: youknowmesayin?