Proud

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Do you think people are responsible for ego in someone or that person is born arrogant?

[aqua70]

Re: Proud

Nah, no person is born arrogant. Depends on whom influenced them.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@aqua70

Nah, no person is born arrogant. Depends on whom influenced them.

thank you…

I’ve another question… what to do with a person who’s showing attitude without anything?

[aqua70]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

thank you…

I’ve another question… what to do with a person who’s showing attitude without anything?

What do you mean ‘without anything’?

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@aqua70

What do you mean ‘without anything’?

opsss my bad, I meant without any reason

[aqua70]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

opsss my bad, I meant without any reason

I have come across quite a few arrogant people in my life and well quite frankly, I just limit my interaction as much as I can. They are not worth my time.

[LP]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

Do you think people are responsible for ego in someone or that person is born arrogant?

I don’t think anyone is born with it.
I think patriotism(minus the soldier kind) is also a form of ego.

[Illuminate]

Re: Proud

We’re responsible for our own ego. When we think we have control of all things and have a sense of superiority that’s usually when the ego slides in and ends up destroying everything.

When people start showing attitude I usually distance myself and sometimes my sassy side comes out

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[Bobby1]

Re: Proud

@Illuminate

We’re responsible for our own ego. When we think we have control of all things and have a sense of superiority that’s usually when the ego slides in and ends up destroying everything.

When people start showing attitude I usually distance myself and sometimes my sassy side comes out

I remembered reading some where that a lot of CEOs on wall street are kind of narcissists, there has to be great self confidence and a desire to win but not arrogance. Ego in balance is needed but not arrogance.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@aqua70

I have come across quite a few arrogant people in my life and well quite frankly, I just limit my interaction as much as I can. They are not worth my time.

hmmm they should be left alone, well whenever I see someone I give smile and greet them nicely.. I guess I need to be a bit arrogant…

P.S: my sharam dont let me make an ego expressions to anyone

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@LP

I don’t think anyone is born with it.
I think patriotism(minus the soldier kind) is also a form of ego.

can you elaborate how?

[LP]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

can you elaborate how?

The show people put up on social media and independence day.. All the my country is better than yours attitude etc

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@Illuminate

We’re responsible for our own ego. When we think we have control of all things and have a sense of superiority that’s usually when the ego slides in and ends up destroying everything.

When people start showing attitude I usually distance myself and sometimes my sassy side comes out

lol :omg:

look at those expressions :rotfl:

Ok, but distancing can hurt them, no?

[LP]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

can you elaborate how?

I believe inculcating patriotism is a means to use the masses for ones own political gain

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@LP

The show people put up on social media and independence day.. All the my country is better than yours attitude etc

maybe it’s to let them know that we aint less then you so dont take Panga which is not Changa… nahi??

[LP]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

maybe it’s to let them know that we aint less then you so dont take Panga which is not Changa… nahi??

I am not referring to Pakistani patriotism. The “them” you are referring to also come under the masses I am talking about.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@LP

I am not referring to Pakistani patriotism. The “them” you are referring to also come under the masses I am talking about.

Ok got it, so what do you suggest to do then? and if an auntie is jealous of you coz she have a wailla nikamma son of your same age, and she is consistently spreading false rumors to make you badnaam then?

[LP]

Re: Proud

@Hakuna_Matata

Ok got it, so what do you suggest to do then? and if an auntie is jealous of you coz she have a wailla nikamma son of your same age, and she is consistently spreading false rumors to make you badnaam then?

Clarify yourself or leave it to Allah (swt). Spreading false rumors is one of the big sins in islam.

[Hakuna_Matata_1]

Re: Proud

@LP

Clarify yourself or leave it to Allah (swt). Spreading false rumors is one of the big sins in islam.

Clarify?? I cant, also they wont believe me coz they all love drama

[LP]

Re: Proud

Then leave it to Allah (swt)