* proud to b muslim*

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Kidnapping is a crime. I know I'm not incorrect in that.

In this case, from what the OP tells us, no kidnapping was involved. I think people understand that. I don't know what you're raging about now.

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I am sorry.. it's my fault.. i should have clearify all the things in my orginal post... I apology :(

but yeah.. both cases look similar but shayed completely different...

Allah knows better whose wrong and whose right... :(
as much as i think.. i get confused :(

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I want to see Diwana debate Glenn Beck.

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No need to apologize. You provided details when you needed to.

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Raging?

All I said what you just said.

No kidnapping was involved in this case.

And additionally no kidnapping was involved even in first thread.

Hence assuming that somehow OP meant there was any similarity in both as far as both being criminal acts is wrong. :)

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Your unwarranted characterization others' posts sounded like a rage to me. There's nothing here that reeks of "feminazi blood rage". What the heck does that even mean?

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I think now you are dragging this for no reason.

I can fully answer you but not sure why you deliberately are ignoring post where unnecessary reference was made on OP father having sex. :smack:

Do you think a girl needs to think about this or should be made to think about this?

Why this post is still lingering here?

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hm. Assuming your mother was Christian. Your dad married her. She started drinking, clubbing and made bf outside marriage. As per you, she went ahead got married to her bf without proper divorce from your father?. Firstly, you know it is illegal in most of secular countries to marry someone else though your mother was married to your dad riiight?. I guess you 'forgot' that detail in your post too?. And since you're so 'proud to be Muslim' you can explain where in any religion it deprives your right as her children to see her?. Listen to her point of view?. Where is your balance in approach?. Heck i am not Muslim but i can assure you there are cases where father and mother both gets joint custody of their child despite of religious or 'moral' differences. Punjabi Kuri. God bless you if you're truely happy and i pray you always be happy. But one day, one day you will remember your mother. May be she needs you now?. May be she needs your help in becoming better person?. Or May be you can meet her and show her your kindness and love that you learnt from your religion?. This is form of daa'waa according to your religion. Moral of my suggestion is, instead of being 'proud' be a better person for her. As she is your mother no what she is, i am sure you learnt that well in your religion.

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i have already told that i do love her...

we do want to see her but the thing is we don't have any contact info :(

we had them but she left that place...

rest as much as i know i already told and Allah Pak knows better what is right and wrong.. i am also confused

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I think OP said her mother converted before her father married her.

She was contacted and she was not interested.

She decided to go with her BF.

Hence her feelings were not hurt.
Somehow she does not care but you and other posters do. :)

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i don't like the fact that if anyone gets the courage to share something so personal ppl start jumping n hurting them. punjabi kuri nobody can n should judge wat ur dad did. he thought something was demand of time n did it. the good part is u n ur bro turned out well. also as ur dad n head of family he is responsible for ur deeni terbeeat. A man will b answerable to Allah on judgement day for the brought up of his kids more than a mom.
Also for belle donne i think its none of anybody's business. if the mom really wants she can complain n reach german embassy herself. Moms who r keen really knows how to deal with such situations.

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ohh. Thanks for clearing up diwana. Sorry OP i've misjudged you.

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My dear i am sure if you try you can find her. That is only if you want to see her.

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how?

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You can begin by contacting your mother's relatives. Go where your mother used to live or where your mother's relative live. hmmmm there are government agencies they can help you track your mother.

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i cant go there... my identity is cmpletly changed.. now m a pkaistani citizen.. name... n everythng is changed...

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for sum reason... few months back.. my dad burn all those proofs... i can never prove who i really am

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lol. Punjabi. If you were born in Germany you get your birth certificate. You can attain that certificate or copy of that certificate anytime from German immigration. And fyi you are German since you were born in Germany. German or any other western countries have all the records with them. Believe me i know these things!. Because i have worked for Citizenship and Immigration Canada.

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yeah.. i tell them everythng and next thing they gna do is arrest my dad...

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No they won't. Tell them that you've lost the papers that is all. They can't arrest your father in Pakistan can't they?. It is impossible. I've come across files similar to yours and most people did end up gaining their citizenship back. You need to contact German embassy in Pak.