Hmmm…after reading dis i felt like m reading abt myself.. i hv been through ths situatio… my father did da same dat guy did… he took me n my elder bro to pak widout telling my mom (non-muslim german)…
ppl hv sed so many thngs… jitny munh utni batain…
but my dad never allowed us go bk.. n may b v never wated to go thr…
n today v both r pakistani n muslim… Allhamdollilah…
sumtym v thnk k if papa wud hv left us der wat kinda life v cud hv living…
v lived as non-muslim… no sharam no hayaa…
bt v living as muslims…
i dnt thnk my dad did anythng wrng…
n i dnt thnk da guy is wrng either
out of curiosity (don't take it in a wrong way) if getting raised up in non-muslim family was such a big issue then why did they get marry at first place ?
I apologize for asking this question, I know it could be harsh but i am just asking .. PEACE
ok sure... you think your dad did right. You were brought up in an envoirnment where you told that your culture is right and what we do as a muslim is right. But a question for your dad who you support, does Islam teach kidnapping children and giving pain to a mother. You may never want to see your mother but i am sure not a single day passes by when she doesnt think about you two. Islam teaches us not to hurt even an ant, you think hurting your mom and taking her kids away from her makes your dad a good muslim?
Agree with spiral, I think u ll have a better understanding when u become a parent. Also, maybe ur father kidnapped u guys at a young age n u just don't remember ur mother...bcuz if u remembered ur mother n missed her everyday...u wuld think differently.
Now that you're older, don't you have any desire to meet the woman who brought you into this world? I imagine that if you were to see her....I doubt that she'd try to convert you to her faith especially since you're an adult (I'm guessing) and are pretty firm in your deen. You could still talk to her/connect with her about so many things......and it doesn't have to be about religion....and another point to consider is that most religions share similar views about many things....as in the moral values are similar.
out of curiosity (don't take it in a wrong way) if getting raised up in non-muslim family was such a big issue then why did they get marry at first place ? I apologize for asking this question, I know it could be harsh but i am just asking .. PEACE
I don't think this is harsh. It's a very legit inquiry.
Punjabi kuri: Where was your dad's Pakistani Muslim pride when he decided to have not one...but TWO children with a non-Pakistani, non-Muslim woman? He didn't think about the future of his children when he was having sex with her?
I don't think this is harsh. It's a very legit inquiry.
Punjabi kuri: Where was your dad's Pakistani Muslim pride when he decided to have not one...but TWO children with a non-Pakistani, non-Muslim woman? He didn't think about the future of his children when he was having sex with her?
Don't you think you are being a little too harsh on OP here?
Where is live and let others live philosophy now?
She is happy, why be mean and bring negativity?
Just remember you are talking to a girl about her father.
anyway, you haven't lived your life. you sound like a kid. one of these days you'll have to peek out from your stockholm syndrome into the real world and see what has really happened here. hopefully it won't take your future husband stealing your babies one day to make you see it.
Not sure why you wrote that? I'm pretty calm. I meant what I wrote without being upset. If OP is going by start a thread defending what her father did....she should have no issues answering those questions.
