* proud to b muslim*

[diwana]

Re: * proud to b muslim*

@pakiQueen

hm. Assuming your mother was Christian. Your dad married her. She started drinking, clubbing and made bf outside marriage. As per you, she went ahead got married to her bf without proper divorce from your father?. Firstly, you know it is illegal in most of secular countries to marry someone else though your mother was married to your dad riiight?. I guess you ‘forgot’ that detail in your post too?. And since you’re so ‘proud to be Muslim’ you can explain where in any religion it deprives your right as her children to see her?. Listen to her point of view?. Where is your balance in approach?. Heck i am not Muslim but i can assure you there are cases where father and mother both gets joint custody of their child despite of religious or ‘moral’ differences. Punjabi Kuri. God bless you if you’re truely happy and i pray you always be happy. But one day, one day you will remember your mother. May be she needs you now?. May be she needs your help in becoming better person?. Or May be you can meet her and show her your kindness and love that you learnt from your religion?. This is form of daa’waa according to your religion. Moral of my suggestion is, instead of being ‘proud’ be a better person for her. As she is your mother no what she is, i am sure you learnt that well in your religion.

I think OP said her mother converted before her father married her.

She was contacted and she was not interested.

She decided to go with her BF.

Hence her feelings were not hurt.
Somehow she does not care but you and other posters do.