Re: * proud to b muslim*
So you do not have any facts…only the information other people are giving you. Since you were so young when you got separated from your mother, you don’t have for a fact what she herself has to say about that situation.
Look, honestly, in a way you were blessed b/c you didn’t experience the heartbreak (due to your age at the time of separation). I don’t mean to be rude when I say this…but honestly, you have no idea what that 10 year old girl feels. I have personally seen custody situations where children are abducted (children who’re old enough to have memories of parents)…and it can be devastating. I know of 2 situations where children were abducted by one parent…and then were found later and re-united with the lost parent…and it really destroys them mentally. And yes, it really destroys the parent who “lost” the child in the 1st place (I know several other cases where the mom/dad are still searching for their abducted child).
Going by your above post…you don’t know for a FACT whether or not your mother abandoned you…or whether or not you were abducted. Do you know for a fact that your mother moved on with her life and doesn’t still wonder whether or not her 2 children are alive or dead? Or is it that other people just told you that she’s married and moved on? Just because she may have re-married and had other children…that doesn’t necessarily mean that she stopped loving you and your brother (ie. didn’t want you guys in her life).
What I think is irrelevant. If you’re mentally at peace with your life…that I’m happy for you. But if this is something that bothers you…then once you become an adult (I don’t know how old you are right now)…you may want to consider contacting your mother and hearing from her mouth directly as to how she feels about you and your brother. That way you don’t have to be confused anymore or live your life wondering whether or not she still thinks about you.
But no matter what…please consider yourself blessed that you weren’t taken from your parent at the age of 10.