Proud Ladies

[Monk]

Re: Proud Ladies

PCG two words.

mimic and imitate. Thats what girls are about any ways.

Don’t go all genuine on first conversation.

If you want to take advice from next level, DONT share your choice of music with them.
Ur choice isn’t really worth mentioning.

U know back in the days we use to teach our sister names of the famous amreekan singers and their songs:phati: so she could keep up with the phonyness girls show.

[Sara516]

@sadzzz

Sara, have you heard aussie urdu? it can sound rather annoying

I’m sure its not any worse than American or Canadian or British Urdu coming from someone who isn’t a native speaker.
I probably have the absolute worst accent when it comes to speaking Urdu…but I’m just not comfortable speaking English with elders at all.

[Jaanwar]

are you a lady?

No.

Moving on.

Talk about arrogant ladies! Oh the irony.

[CE]

I know plenty of these kinda girls. I wouldn't call them "proud" but more like "stuck up snobs"

Either they think they r gods gift to this earth (either by looks or wealth) or then they just put on a perfect future daughter in law show

[Scarface]

Re: Proud Ladies

^ We can understand your feelings (after looking at ur avatar)

[soni27]

^ We can understand your feelings (after looking at ur avatar)

hahaa..

[Nightwalkr]

@PyariCgudia

Too often I go to desi event, gatherings, and I meet these girls, who when you sit and try to have a conversation with them, they wont do anything to move the conversation forward. I mean, I guess they smile and answer your topic starting questions nicely, but then they sit there quietly. And you have to prod further by other conversation material…

Urgh. It’s so annoying. I end up walking away and trying to have a conversation with someone else, but honestly, I feel like most desi girls at desi parties are like this. They’re just so super guarded, it’s hard to make friends.

Am I missing something here?

Actually it is the way how Desi girl suppose to work, with every other guy.

You might want to add another story under this one explaining “but than when I go to get her a drink and come back I see that same desi girl(s) is chitchatting with some handsome white guy or desi guy frequently and laughing.” To make a solid case.

EDIT: I remember talking to this one Desi girl, where after 10 minutes I realized that I was the only one talking and she was just saying “ji…ji…ji…hmm” while looking down or elsewhere but not to me. This isnt being “proud” not “stuckup snob” or whatever negative you call it. If you think back and review the history, a girl may be shy and wont be able to bring herself up to speaking with you.

Later on when I asked her sister if I have done something wrong, she said no, and that her sister has been like this since ever. She wouldnt talk to a guy wo would just walk away from a guy.

Proud Lady:
A girl would talk, but she would be too full of herself and will treat you as if she is treating a servent.

Stuckup Snob: Would talk to you but she would find an excuse to finish the conversation and move on.

[AuntyNumber1]

PCG, Sarah

Maybe i'm just giving company to someone at a gathering? you know?

Maybe i'm preoccupied thinking about something else?

Maybe I've got a bad headache?

I mean, if I'm not answering you in that super friendly tone, Back Off after a max of 3 tries!

[Sara516]

@AuntyNumber1

PCG, Sarah

Maybe i'm just giving company to someone at a gathering? you know?

Maybe i'm preoccupied thinking about something else?

Maybe I've got a bad headache?

I mean, if I'm not answering you in that super friendly tone, Back Off after a max of 3 tries!

Then why be there if you're not going to be nice to someone who may not know anyone and is trying to have a decent time.....

I have been to gatherings where i stick to a few certain people but I certainly don't give someone a cold shoulder for no reason....else what is the point of socializing