may b u emit a different vibe? or may b u dun share the common grounds with them to talk abt?? and ev 1 has a different personality n interests
use the same principle with desi women which you use for socially interacting with any 1 else i.e. start from sum generic discussion and then after determining the interests of the other person steer the discussion towards those topics.
p.s. just try 2 keep the prejudice away that desi gals are only interested in silly dramaz/cosmetics etc. or desi guyz can only talk abt cricket/they are the best thing happened 2 human kind etc.