Re: Pros and Cons of marrying a lady doctor.
Fair enough, but I doubt women who spent 5 years groveling in med school while their high school mates were all busy dolling up and enjoying all the perks of being young girls, would want to sit home and answer gawking faces questioning about their career and wasting seats unless they *really *have a very VALID excuse to do so.
Life isn’t as easy for someone who is a mum, has in laws to deal with, be ever ready for mehmaan daari and basically expected to do all the household chores without fail . Not everybody can afford maids and servants seeing doctors in Pak are paid peanuts. Also while we are living on our own with our private space, where nobody questions when we clean or cook or do the laundry, it’s pretty easy to wag fingers at those who for genuine reasons had to compromise and quit or take a break because we would never be able to know the dynamics of their family unless of course we step right into their shoes.
The way we shouldn’t be judging a woman who has had the opportunity to start career and finish training without starting family or getting married because it’s *her *choice, the same way we cant judge someone who had to take a little break for kids and family and for other countless reasons that might not be written on her forehead.
To the OP, there aren’t any special pros and cons of marrying a lady doctor. Like any other marriage, both parties have to compromise. But yes if you actually intend to make her the sughar stay at home woman and *bahu *of the family, then please do her and yourself a favour, do not marry her.
It isn’t easy to spend so many years literally with drilling med school exams and a million books to mug up only to end up staying home just for the sake of it !