Re: Pros and Cons of marrying a lady doctor.
Sure, inshallah when all works out, I’m gonna send you a pretty postcard with the family picture and maybe I’ll give you a quick paragraph or two on how I actually made it work. 
At the end of the day, you pray, you try, you work hard, and you keep striving. There is a concept of this in our religion - it’s called Jihad. You see, not everything is about lifting a weapon and shooting. You can accomplish a lot for the world by just…trying.
Let’s be honest. A lot of girls get pushed into medical careers, have no idea what they’re getting themselves into and whereas they may be better suited to be a allied health professional, they waste time pursuing degrees they won’t use. You can blame the girl, you can blame her school for not screening her out properly, you can blame her parents for brainwashing her and then not supporting her when she gets married and is told she can’t work, or you can blame her husband and his family who misleads her and then forces her to stop working after marriage, or you can blame her own laziness.
shrugs
Sure, there is circumstances. But then there is also hard work, and making a solid attempt.
Things work out, if you TRY.