Re: Pro’s and Con’s of Dating?
If you think u’ve found ur ‘soulmate’ and ur still at college or uni u prob can’t afford to marry or ur parents might not be keen until u’ve finished.. this is the case with most Muslim couples I think.. Usually that or the person you’re with wouldn’t be someone ur parents would really like eg.wrong caste, race or family, in which case the couples sometimes try and wait it out..
It’s easy to keep pointing out the cons while dismissing the pros of dating when u’ve never tried it and never experienced the emotional highs of being with someone u feel u love. Even without marrying them just spending time with them makes u feel amazing..
The point I was trying to make was if it was that much hassle and heartache those girls and guys who have been dumped once prob would not try again with another person, they’d just give up and ask their parents to find someone, which the majority of them don’t do..
Some people do get tooo emotional (or even suicidal) and can’t handle a breakup but most ppl are level-headed enough to get over it and in time move on.. If they’re so fragile they can’t handle rejection perhaps they shouldn’t get married either ‘in case’ it breaks up..