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^^ yes!
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well apparently its not going that bad, she said that she loves him and he is like i havent reached a stage where i can say i love you but i do like you and you are a nice gal etc and they are going out these days.
secondly this best friend of mine(the girl) she is a frequent addition to my blog entries. so anyone who reads my blog will definitely know who i am talking about. i have given this a lot of thought. i love both F and S and i wouldnt want anyone to get hurt and she is very very close to me and i think it wont be so bad if they get married and if she becomes my bhabhi so the bond i have with F right now will be even more strengthened:)
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thats awesome!! u see..how can someone think the girl was desperate? if it wasn't for her making the first move..the guy wouldve never known how she felt..and they wouldnt be dating right now!
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dear Aisha in Dubai,
personal honesty of intention and a will to gracefully fortifying a relationship through marriage, is the first step to a noble bonding between two people as a potential couple.
for courtship to be successful, anyone who has their honesty and self respect with them, be it a woman or a man, would not keep confusing each other especially not degrade each other while being confused within own selves.
being committed and not relinquishing this commitment in a developing relationship with an honest to God intent of marrying a person who you speak with, and/or get to know seriously, ought to lead to a marriage.
otherwise, hypocrasy and disappointment of someone's powerless ness, dishonesty and hurtful nature is all that is left as an impression which initself is terribly painful and saddening.
as a religious example, even, Prophet Mohammed's first marriage was an outcome of a woman's proposal.
i wish F and S, a happily married life, in the times to be. amen.
best,
Dushwari
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thank you dushwari jee.
and pinks yeah it is cool!
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aww thats great to hear that its turning out well!
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yeah it is:) and i love both of them alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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whats wrong with a girl expressing her feelings? i dont understand why the guy has to have the 'upper' hand all the time. if you dont express what u feel, how will the guy even know? i think it helps alot because then the guy has it IN his mind what his better half is thinking and what the expectations are since they are now laid out to him.
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ma dvice to these kinda gals …get a life..please:frusty:
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^:rotfl:
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get a life? why? or do u mean just sit around and wait to be proposed? typical men mentality.
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i propsed to Atif…
i knew he’d never say it coz he was damn too shy and too much of a shureefo…
…so i eased his pain and asked him…
nufin wrong with it…we’r happily married…i guess u can say im the guy in this relationship…no shurmaaying in front of hubby…coz hes tooo too shy…
oh common u hav eto balance it out ryt…
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thanx for the input ashi:P
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hehe that sounds so cute! i feel like there arent many men around like that anymore :S
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do you think its wrong if a girl proposes to a guy?
No.
Why do you even ask? Is Khadija (R)'s example not enough for you people?