Proposals

Lifestyle Relationships
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people not only is there arranged but we have hardly married outside cousins!!! its going to be difficult:smack:

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Most of the girls I met made me propose to them even if the first initiation from their side, a guy and girl know how and when to do and when the other one is expacting it depending on the friendship the have.

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Aisha, I don't see what right you have to get angry. If they are trying to involve you in the decision making, be an adult and tell them that you are being put in a very awkward position and that you don't want to be involved. Let this be between them.

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Muhammad :saw2: first marriage.

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God helps those who help themselves.

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U mean like her parents go to the dudes parents....sounds like devdas to me:)

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No, its not wrong..but it would sound kind of desperate...a man should always be the one to propose or initiate things.

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thats an extremely old-fashioned perspective. if she likes him enough and if she has the courage/love/respect to ask him to marry her, then why not? i don't see it as desperate - i think shes got guts.
and i really don't see the harm in what she's done from a general perspective. specifically, being aisha's friend, from aisha's family's perspective, yeah, it could be an issue, but never say never. i'd say its time they sorted it out between themselves, i.e. open, honest, face to face discussion and then proceed from there. maybe they need your help in making that happen, aisha.

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also, a man needs to be supported as a woman may need to be supported, but the better able spouse ought not to misuse their ability to support and the spouse who is not as stably adjusted, should not expect being cared for indefinitely and without half as much repay in terms of sharing the financial liability of running and sharing own house hold as a partner in the couple.
dushwari

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i want it to be between them but its not staying between them!

the problem is the cousin hardly ever talked to the girl, my friend just liked him alot and popped the q, my cousin hardly knows her, what now!

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He was (pbuh) in a special league thus also blessed with such a noble loving act of getting proposed to…

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i second that it's better to be a creator than a creature of your circumstances ,

but mostly men are psychic in our society , they are never satisfied , if a gurl does or does not propose them .

good luck to her :)
if my friend would have done that , i would have been on her side .

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If you like him and want him to consider you instead, just let him know. end of the story. Since you guys don't go outside your family for marriages, I am sure he will prefer you over her.

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i think she's already engaged to another cousin, not this guy :p

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well you have to give her props for expressing her feelings, at least she won't have to live the rest of her life wondering...what if I had said something?, now shes going to know whether its making ur life ackward or not.

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Desperation!

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No its not :rolleyes:

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are you ok?:hayaa: i am hitched to someone else:eek:

i dont like him at all in that sense, she can have him!

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how is it desperate?

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do u guys want to know whats happening with these two nowadays?