Re: Proposal from UK
**if he has professed a desire to marry a virgin …even in that case she should just quietly back out of the rishta …but under no circumstances would I advise she tell him…
she is not implying anything unless he asks and she avoids answering and marries him
im sorry shabnaam i know u mean well…but i respectfully disagree with you
and i personally believe in a forgiving Allah…when u repent… Allah ki nazron mein u are free from that sin …therefore Woh khuda aapka parda rakhega…agar yeh khud parda uthaayegi toh she will unveil herself to the whole world… which there is no need for
i agree that if virginity is important to the guy he should have that…in which case she should back out quietly like i said even in that case she doesnt need to tell him in fact i advise against it… a secret only remains a secret as long as u keep ur mouth shut…and u shud keep ur mouth shut if u have asked for forgiveness …what is she supposed to do tell everyone so that she can never have a family? are you kidding?
ur not in the same boat as her thats why you seem a little unsympathetic maybe… but please think about what kind of advice u are giving her…and how it cud effect her life
i understand ur argument that ur sins never remain a secret they always come out… that is true for the sins for which you have not repented but not for those for which you have…and for those for which u have repented its like u never committed that sin… cuz Allah is all forgiving…
agar larrke ki requirement virginity hai she should find out and back out quietly…but agar Allah ne uske gunaah pe parda rakha huwa hai then there is no need for her to go around yapping about it.**