Prophet Mohammed nine year old wife

Hi guys I wanted to know what you guys think what was the age of Aisha when her marriage to prophet Mohammed was consummated.

According to Hadith,

*Volume 5, Book 58, Number 236

I know many Muslims take this literally and do not think there is anything wrong with it. Others would say the age was actually nineteen and the Hadith was interpreted incorrectly. As a non-Muslim t is hard to know what the truth is when many Muslims cannot decide. I hope this topic isn’t seen as being derogatory to anyones religion or belie*fs

Getting married young was the norm. I'm sure your granny for married when she was 14 or 15.

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That would suggest they both were quite young but according to popular understanding Mohammed was in his forties and Aisha was only nine. That isn't quite the same thing as a 15 year old boy getting married to a 14 year old girl.

were 13 brides never given away as part of political alliances. As mentioned before this was the norm in Olden Times . Heck if you got to 40 you were lucky

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The whole movement of Islam was against the "norms" of the time. So how could the Prophet care about this particular norm that you speak of?

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Prophet Muhammad’s (s) Marriage to Aisha (ra) - Yusuf Estes - YouTube

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Hamza Yusuf - Prophet Muhammad marriage to Aisha - YouTube

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The ages that we see now which are considered appropriate for marriage was not the same 1500 years ago:

Religious Questions Answered with Biblical Answers

under Judaism, boys could marry or make religious vows at 14-years-old and girls at 12-years-old, both only with parental permission, which parental permission was required until both boys or girls were 21-years-old (“Adult Age,” *McClintock and Strong Encyclopaedia).

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Later Rabbinic sources tell us that Jewish girls could be betrothed as early as 12 years and a day or any time after the age of twelve and a half.
The actual marriage involved two stages. First of all there was the betrothal and then - after an interval of several months, perhaps a year - the young girl would have been taken to the house of her husband to be and at that moment, once they started to live together, they were considered properly married.
This could have been quite a traumatic process for a young girl; to leave behind her mother and father and all the people she was used to, and go to live in an alien household.
The choice of husband was made by the family, not by the girls themselves. It was a legal agreement between the father and the husband. Girls did not have a part in that legality.

In that time the marriages used to be quite early.

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She was 19 and not 9!

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This is correct I believe

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and marrying a nine year old would still be an oddity in a society where women are married in their early teens. using the excuse of women getting married at a young age is not a supportive argument in this case.

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The laws that have existed in Western society till the 19th century was age 7 (minimum age for giving consent) with marriage at puberty and at 12 years no consent was required from the parents, where as Islam made it compulsory for the parents to give consent even after age 12.

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Age of consent - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Traditionally, across the globe, the age of consent for a sexual union was a matter for the family to decide, or a tribal custom. In most cases, this coincided with signs of puberty, menstruation for a woman and pubic hair for a man.[SUP][2]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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In Ancient Rome, it was very common for girls to marry and have children shortly after the onset of puberty.[SUP]citation needed]
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The first recorded age-of-consent law dates back 800 years: In 1275, in England, as part of the rape law, a statute, Westminster 1, made it a misdemeanor to “ravish” a “maiden within age,” whether with or without her consent. The phrase “within age” was interpreted by jurist Sir Edward Coke as meaning the age of marriage, which at the time was 12 years of age.[SUP][3]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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**In the 12th century Gratian, the influential founder of Canon law in medieval Europe, accepted age of puberty for marriage to be between 12 and 14 but acknowledged consent to be meaningful if the children were older than 7. There were authorities that said that consent could take place earlier.
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Marriage would then be valid as long as neither of the two parties annulled the marital agreement before reaching puberty, or if they had already consummated the marriage. It should be noted that Judges honored marriages based on mutual consent at ages younger than 7, in spite of what Gratian had said; there are recorded marriages of 2 and 3 year olds.[SUP][2]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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The American colonies followed the English tradition, and the law was more of a guide. For example, Mary Hathaway (Virginia, 1689) was only 9 when she was married to William Williams. Sir Edward Coke (England, 17th century) “made it clear that the marriage of girls under 12 was normal, and the age at which a girl who was a wife was eligible for a dower from her husband’s estate was 9 even though her husband be only four years old.”[SUP][2]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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Reliable data for when people would actually marry is very difficult to find. In England for example, the only reliable data on age at marriage in the early modern period comes from records which involved only those who left property after their death. Not only were the records relatively rare, but not all bothered to record the participants’ ages, and it seemed that the more complete the records are, the more likely they are to reveal young marriages. Additionally, 20th and 21st centuries’ historians have sometimes shown reluctance to accept data regarding young ages of marriage, and would instead explain the data away as a misreading by a later copier of the records.[SUP][2]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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A small number of Italian and German states introduced an age of consent in the 16th century, setting it at 12 years. Towards the end of the 18th century, other European countries also began to enact age of consent laws. The first French Constitution established an age of consent of 11 years in 1791, which was raised to 13 in 1863. Portugal, Spain, Denmark and the Swiss cantons, initially set the age of consent at 10–12 years and then raised it to between 13 and 16 years in the second half of the 19th century.[SUP][3]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)[/SUP] Historically, the English common law set the age of consent to range from 10 to 12.[SUP][4]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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In the United States, by the 1880s, most states set the age of consent at 10–12, and in one state, Delaware, the age of consent was only 7. A New York Times article states that it was still aged 7 in Delaware in 1895.[SUP][5]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)[/SUP] Female reformers and advocates of social purity initiated a campaign in 1885 to petition legislators to raise the legal age of consent to at least 16, with the ultimate goal to raise the age to 18. The campaign was successful, with almost all states raised the age of consent to 16–18 by 1920.[SUP][6]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)[/SUP][SUP][7]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)
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Social (and the resulting legal) attitudes toward the appropriate age of consent have drifted upwards in modern times. For example, while ages from 10 to 13 were typically acceptable in Western countries during the mid-19th century,[SUP][1]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)[/SUP]the end of the 19th century and the beginning of the 20th century were marked by changing attitudes towards sexuality and childhood resulting in raising the ages of consent to ages generally ranging from 16 to 18.[SUP][3]](Age of consent - Wikipedia)[/SUP]
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You can go through the history and can read Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) married a young girl, an old women, a widow and all like that. HE (p.b.u.h) did it to set examples!! like you said, he married a very young girl, you can also read, he married a 45 year old woman (Hazrat Khadija) when he was only 25.. not only this, Hazrat Khadija approached The Holy Prophet P.B.U.H and asked Him to consider her proposal!! It is another example He set by accepting the proposal that not only Men but Women can send the proposal too but these days people just think it as awkward of sending a proposal if they are a daughter's parent or even the boy's parent take it strange!!

So Brother, its not like why he married such a young lady, its just about, He being a messenger from Allah, had to set examples for us not only in marriages but in any act of His life to let us learn from His life.

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the marriage was a blessing from Allah

the difference between islam and the modern world is at conflict here. in islam the marriage is a genuinely loving instituition. the modern world in contrast is more inclined to mix a plethora of issues around unmarried relationships (some good, some bad, some ugly) and then decide upon what an acceptable marriage or unmarried relationship should be. however it should be remembered that the issues the modern world tries to avoid are not present in the islamic system by default ie age matters not in a genuinely loving marriage

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That is true.

I do not think that Ghamidi is a proper aalim, but he answered this correctly.

The way Arabs used to speak of numbers is the way your Gas Stations by the freeway exit shows you the gas price. If the gas is above $3 and the price of regular is $3.69, the gas station price board would say Regular $ .69 (with the assumption that you would add $3 to that).

Prophet :saw2: when spoke of Lailatul Qadar said that find it in 7th or 9th night (or something to that effect), instead f saying 27th or 29th. Similarly, when Aisha (RA) was asked about her age of marriage, she mentioned Nikah at 6 and Rukhsati at 9. That means 16 and 19.

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^that makes sense.

other than that, we get it that people married early. the issue is she was 9, not 16. and he was in his forties. not late teens or early 20s.

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has anyone considered the political ramifications of his unions?