For the sake of board discipline this will be last post in this thread.
You seem to underestimate what maintain means. Do I owe my wife assets and money for giving up her career to raise my kids? NO, I expect her to do that. Maintain does not mean covering for lost opportunities, it means providing a family home (no apartment) & all that goes with it. If you think that is not enough for you please go ahead and make your own home but don’t complain if you get tired of doing a man’s job. I stress on education because a educated woman will bring up educated children. Does this mean I don’t care about marriage? or I don’t care for her? NO that’s your own personal interpretation and you are entitled to it.
If you really feel that you have lost opportunities for work and career advancement then you should consider that before marriage, don’t have kids or just simply get a divorce. Don’t put these accusations of lost opportunities on your spouse, make your own assets or ask your parents.
There are no Islamic obligations of writing your assets in your wife’s name or providing her with such, a husband’s duties are very clearly defined and so are the wife’s, I suggest you read them, I am not interested in initiating any religious argument on this matter.
Good luck to you.