Reha
June 7, 2010, 6:12pm
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You read what you want to read & take meaning whichever way it suits your whims & preconceived notions. I owe to maintain her as a wife & I can do that very well, you want to see it some other twisted way go ahead. There is absolutely no obligation in Islam or in today’s social circles to put her name on something I worked for, you want property in your name go to your parents, accumulate your own. don’t manipulate your spouse into doing it.
Will I ask her to put my name on her house? her assets? her inheritance? No I don’t care, I know how to make assets and keep them, that is the essence to good living.
My advice to guys reading this : once a woman starts talking about ‘owing’ her, show her the door as swiftly as possible.
And my advice to the ladies is when a man starts using terms like “mine” and not “ours”…give him the boot. It shows lack of commitment and faith in your marriage. He is simply there for the time being…not for the long haul.