If, ladies, you ever come across a guy who doesn’t find it common sense to put your name on the property and bank account, etc but refuses to let you work (because good moms stay at home and raise their kids, unlike the rest of us horrific moms who actually work to feed their kids), and has you cooking fresh rotian for him every night, then run the other way. He’s taking services from you and giving you no long-term protection.
Let the gorian lap up men like that. Go find a more secure option for yourself.