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YESS plz answer this! Thanks in advance.
as long as its ok for women to ahem ahem hump multiple men, before, after, in between, during, tieing the knot......and im assuming this knot they are tying is around the mans ahem ahem...
LOL!
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its totally unacceptable religiously. but even if i try to keep that aside and think..
if a guy can have a problem to be attracted to multiple women before marriage, he can have the same problem later!
if i get ur question right, u want to know from the girls - if after all the crap, a normal girl would accept the guy or not?..
i dont speak for everyone, but in my opinion 99% of the girls wouldnt accept this behaviour! its sick! sorry to offend u.. but its too disguisting for a normal girl to accept!
the 1% might be the type who themselves are like the CHAP! =)
if the chap is marrying someone who is similar and doesnt give a ****, thats a different story! the chap can relax then.. do whatever he wants to.. let the girl do whatever she wants to..!!
the chap should try and improve himself though! its a self created problem.. its just in his head!
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most of the questions in our life can be answerd if we keep ourselves in the others place and think..
its simple.. how would the chap feel about getting married to a girl with a nature like himself?
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^ If you need peoples' approval to sleep around..........maybe you're not as ready to have sex as you think you are. I could be wrong but I'm guessing that engaging in physical intimacy would require a certain amount of inner confidence and self-assurance. And if one has to FREQUENLTY ask permission to have sexual relations...........then maybe this step is too big for the person to take because you're lacking that confidence to think for yourself. So how will you have the confidence to deal with the emotional and other consequences of sexual intimacy?
If a guy hasn't even slept with a single woman........how would he have any idea that he won't be able to resist sexual desires toward all women. If a guy doesn't even have ONE wife..............how does he know that he won't be able to be satisfied with one just wife after marriage. Chap is counting his chickens before they hatch. He's worrying about things before they have happened.
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Deela stop being so dheela and decide already. Discussion done.
OK wait ladies. Ive just come back and so many of u have comments. To many my earlier posts already encompasss the answers, and to new points i shall answers briefly.- as time is short.
one girl asked if id dont mind a girl who has such a past then its ok-----look girl>>> that is the 'whole point'.
My thread question was inquiring; howcomes so many of you virgin and decent girls go out end up with non-virgin/past player guys?
So my point was if its that common=easy for a guy to be a lil smart and be able to pull a good chick then hey......it shows there no such big importance to you girls of a man being patient to preserve himself for you.---so why should i or any other guy do so when we could still enjoy ourself (legally or illegally and with honesty) and still get the same goods!
sorry it sounds rude in saying 'you girls' but pls be calm and accept this is what indeed takes place........ i dnt intend to be rude at all im not saying your cheap but the onlookers will form opnions and from what they see.
and to rv and other chick who said im not confident in and unable to get girls....woow...what an assertion...sorry i dont wanna go into detail...-but take me on this one i am not unable to get girls...infact i have good girls wanting me that are better than you cud imagine.
anyhow leave that.
wasiey i dislike the way RV, continues to dominate my threads and speak for others.
RV you shows more signs of insecurity and frustrtaion than me because you cannnot stand it when your word is not the last left on my topics. You just sit there like an appa thinking you older and wiser than everyone--but u know what just stuff it---who specifically asked YoU in the first place.
If you think people who forward thier probelms are insecure and whatever...what are you trying to prove or get by that?
I didnt want to get a 'yes' answer from everyone. I just wanted honest and individual answers in the light of the purple highlighted question i asked.
But you just take over and control what the other girls say too.
And If you get so heated by my topics-whether they are asked once or 100 times who even asked you to get into them? Everytime you have this obession like problem ranting and ranting..at me...and you wish to disclose my identity what your friggin problem girl... who r u? to me YOU portray more signs of insecurity anyone else.
There were still some exchanges to be made but thanks to u the thread is now gone.
You flippin damn prick.