Re: Promiscuity
I'll give you a real-life example of what your question sounds like. A kid wants to go to a party. He asks Mommy for permission. Mommy says, "No." So now the kid whines and pouts and then goes to Daddy and asks the same question hoping that Daddy will say, "Yes beta you can go." Only in this scenario..........both mom and dad are parental figures and could be considered to have equal authority.
BUT IN YOUR CASE................Allah..........and your future wife.............don't have equal authority. You don't like Allah's view that premarital sex is prohibitied.......so just like whiny kid.............you are now seeking permission/approval from the women folk.
A person who places more emphasis on the approvals of others.........than on the opinion of his own CONSCIENCE and ZAMEER...........is becoming weak.