Professional Women in a Bollywood Daze?

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Re: Professional Women in a Bollywood Daze?

@PyariCgudia

Honey, its called a breast pump, if you really want to feed the kids for 2 years each. Feeding for 2 years is not a requirement by any means. Like I said, even the Quran asks you to consult a knowledgable source (ex. doctor).

Even if you breast feed for 2 years, no problem. I’m not talking about working when the kids are little. Like I said, do you need to breast feed when the kid is 7? Do you need those breasts when your kids are in school and growing up…are u planning on going to school every other hour to shove your breast in their mouth? I hope not. My question is, what will you do when your kids are in school and beyond? At that point, your husband has no Islamic right to even ask you to stay in the home.

And this thread is not entirely about working. Its about being a ghulam to the man in your life. Its about subjecting your dignity to his whim, regardless of whether he’s just or not. Its about women who are in professional school being insecure about their marriage, and giving up their dignity and intelligence to become some guy’s maasi.

Maybe this example does not pertain to how you envision your marriage to be, in which case, wonderful.

Lussi, of course, you do what is best for your baby or marriage. But as of yet, no one has answered my question. Do you need your female genitals to take care of housework, and a 7 year old kid? I thought the use of the vagina ends at childbirth and the use of boobs end at breast feeding. Surely there is life beyond that stage in family life?

yes you do need it… because men have a hormone called testosterone…and we all know what role that can play.